to wait or not,if you are older than your boyfriend??/
By Clara241988
@Clara241988 (22)
September 9, 2008 12:44am CST
It really puzzled me!My boyfriend is younger than me by 4years .I am on work now but he still has two years to finish his university.I visited his parents,they are just ok for me.And my family don't want me to marry a boy who is younger than me, even I still need to wait and most of my friends married.I feel upset about this.Mylot friends, have you ever suffer such kind of problem??
3 responses
@lovelydame3000 (1577)
• India
9 Sep 08
My Boyfriend is 15 years younger to me. We are going steady for over a year now. We share an apartment and he already have proposed to me. I dont care if we marry or not. I consider it just a piece of paper and what matters to me most is the mental & physical compatability we share.
@Clara241988 (22)
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9 Sep 08
I see you really enjoy your life!go ahead!
a good example for me!
thanks for your reply!
@song8860 (115)
• China
9 Sep 08
Why your bf'parents like you but your parents can not accept the fact?Becuase guy is bigger than girl so many people will accept it,if girl is bigger than guy so many parents can not accept in my living here.I am very curiours about it.Can you explain it for me?But I thing love is have no age and distance .
@jaygee96 (316)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
I think you should give more time to yourself and to your boyfriend. I mean let him finish his study and you enjoy your life. Let your relationship grow and get to know each other more. Also give more time for your family to like your boyfriend.There's no need to rush if you are not financially, emotionally, physically, spiritually ready.
@Clara241988 (22)
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9 Sep 08
you are absolutely right!Many of my friends share the same idea with you!So I wait for my happiness!
Thanks so much!
@rahul28rjn (54)
• India
9 Sep 08
hello frnd i am not suffered this kind of problem because my girlfriend and me are same age but i have suggest u that if u and ur boyfriend both love very much together then nothing is matter u both want to have a good understanding for each other and if u dont love very much and ur parents are also say u to leave him then u can. its my opinion that love is most important not age or some els if u love him very much u can live with him, u can wait for him and he loves u then he can do this. so frnd firstly find that he loves u or not then take a desison for ur life. i hope i give a good advice but firsty also discuss with ur parents also. please reply me for my comment do u like it or not and am i right or not..
@Clara241988 (22)
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9 Sep 08
yes,you r right!I know what shall I do!
we love each other so much.
Thanks a lot,my friend