What would you do if you were betrayed

i will just keep quiet what else u can do

I've been through with this situation.I was betrayed by my brother and a person i thought a friend.It was really painful for me because after all the kindness i had done to them they betrayed me and even made things against me.I never thought that there are people like them.I can never forget what they did to me that until now i still can't forgive them.I wish i could but my heart still say no.Only time can tell.

I dont know what to sy, but maybe they will be lucky enought to accept thier sorry but never be thier friend or family again, but as they said still the water is heavier than oil. can say GOD knows.

I might forgive a friend if they have betrayed me but the forgetting part is something I will have a problem with

If I ever had a friend that betrayed I am not sure if I would be their friend again, and I know I would not trust them at all,and I would probably wage war with them whenever I saw them,I have never had a friend betray me,even though I do not trust a couple of my friends,and one used to be a liar and user when it came to borrowing money,and he has changed,but I still do not trust him,and avoid him whenever I can because he still seems like bad news.

i don't handle betrayal well at all. in fact it breaks my heart. it is so unessary & hateful of a friend or a family member. if you have a bone to pick w.me , come to my face . don't go behing my back, i hate that.no, i would not be friends w/them because i would never trust them. no, i am not able to forgive & forget. know u are suppose to but i don't do that too easily.

If someone very dearly betrayed me, I think I will still be able to be friends with that person but I won't trust them completely, I will forgive but I don't think I can forget.

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I'm afraid I find it very difficult to forgive and forget. I bear a grudge for a VERY long time - maybe even forever - and the person concerned would really have to prove to me beyond a shadow of a doubt that they could be trusted again and were genuinely sorry for whatever they'd done. I remember being betrayed once - when someone tried to undermine me behind my back and take my job from me. I have actually forgiven - but I don't have the level of trust I used to have.

I would cry, that's the initial reaction. I would cry a river, curse him/ them, then say bad things then move on!lol. I think God is so kind to me that He always give me heartaches and pains. Like, this is His way to make me strong and a better person. I have all the stories to tell, I've had boyfriends who cheated on me, used me then trashed me. But I'm still here, I'm still alive, surviving. If I'm betrayed by anyone, I would just feel bad about it, forget about the person, then if they ask for forgiveness, I will give it, but I can't be sure if I'm willing to trust him again.

Hi mayka, I would find it very difficult to forgive someone that has betrayed me. I don't think that I would be able to be friends with them anymore. I wouldn't be able to trust them at all ever again and that is the most important part of friendship. I am not a forgiving person and I never forget. If someone has done something wrong to me I don't think that I would be able to have anything to do with them at all. There would be nothing left of the friendship if they betrayed me because that would mean that they broke a trust and that would have to end the friendship because I would never forgive them.

Never i wont be able to recover from this shock , coz i wont be alive for it anymore! there's one such relation i seek it maybe its my weakness or whatever it is!

i think i can still manage to forgive and forget about what has happened but i'll make sure i learn something from it. i've tried being betrayed once and it was really hard for me but now i have already moved on so i guess it's really true that time heals.;-)

people makes mistakes and i guess it's just fair if i forgive those who betray me. sometimes, it's hard to understand different kinds of people, even friends.. we have different personalities and i guess we have to understand that. time can heal anyway. we don't have to stick to the past when we still have a biiiig future ahead of us!

I'm a person who won't forgive everything easily. It's very hard for me. Even if I forgive our relationship would never be the same. I wouldn't be able to trust this person any more.

when someone betrayed me, the first thing that comes from my mind is to retaliate. but when i will think it over & over again, i will just realize that getting even is just waste of time, i just let karma decide what is good for her/him lol

You didn't eluced to the nature of the betrayal, some are worse than others. If you did something to my children, I could never forgive. If they slept with my husband no way. Other things are in fact just things, and I would forgive eventually, but there would always be an heir of caution around that person.

betrayal by a family member or a friend is so painful coz i think i could trust them my life..betrayed by them is like a stabbed in my back..betrayal will change everything especially the relationship we had before will never be the same again..time can heal and i'll be able to forgive but i can't forget what they did to me..In betrayal, trust is lost.. (",)

i will see what's happen to us, and then make a decision. i think if i could be a friend with that person, i could trust him like before. even i know i should do believe him, but it is hard to do that, need time to cure everything. i don't hate anyone in my life time, because it is not good for me and will bring me bad mood.

if im to be betrayed by someone close to me, i think i would surely feel disappointed and angry. who wouldnt? i mean, theyre the last person you would think to do that, right? so i guess, cutting her/him off my life, at a certain span of time, would be my step. nevertheless, i believe that time is a healer. so when im ready, il take the courage to face him/her and will try my best to put things, more or less, the way they used to be :)