why dont people use their real names as usernames in mylot?
By magna86
@magna86 (1786)
India
September 9, 2008 10:41am CST
well i dont know whats stopping them!!! and i feel that people do not want to disclose who they are!!! that includes me too!! i feel that its not safe to use real name in social communities.. and that too in international forums!! in my point of view its just a feeling of security thats all!!
is your username your real name? if not why???
feel free to give you views guys!!
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41 responses
@WhatsHerName (2716)
• United States
10 Sep 08
Well I've been called by my username plenty of times.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
10 Sep 08
I am sure we all have, and Love your attitude and response back to this one. So genuine indeed.
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@xParanoiax (6987)
• United States
10 Sep 08
Nope. Why? Because privacy is a very important thing, especially on the internet. Alot of people have problems with stalkers or criminals...it's much better when most of the world overall hasn't a clue who you are, because it's safer.
I believe it's a wise precaution.
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@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
9 Sep 08
Oh goodness, I would think it would be fairly obvious.
My name is uncommon so I doubt there would be more than one Marie Anne, but how many people here do you think might be named Cindy or Bill? How in heaven's name could you have that many members with the same or similar username?
I suppose you could go with whatever default numbers pop up after it, but imagine the confusion.
Trying to maintain personal security, obviously, but I believe my theory is probably just as much the reason as any.
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@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
10 Sep 08
You're kidding, right?
There are probably thousands of Kathy's here.
So we should have KathyXWY, KathyABC, Kathy123, Kathy987 and hundreds of others? And how difficult do you think it would be to differentiate between them?
Please ...
@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
i will also ask you the same question, why don't you use your real name as your username here in mylot? for me personally i didn't use my real name as my username here coz i just want to change my name just here in forum lol in short i'm tired of using my real name coz i always here it over & over again hehehe.. or should i say this is my screen name at forum's industry lol
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@AndrewFreyne (6281)
• United Kingdom
10 Sep 08
I guess some people just like to remain hidden behind an alias! There's nothing wrong with that I guess, you should use whatever makes you feel comfortable. I personally like to use my real name. There is no other you with your name in the world! I guess there is the viewpoint that, if your name is known then it can be used to find out personal things about you, I'm not sure that this is true though. There's definitely a lot to be said regarding security and protecting yourself on the Internet as you just don't know when you might come across a crazy dood! However, I'm sure that the whole using your name idea is safe! What's yours by the way or is your real name Magna? Andrew
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@AndrewFreyne (6281)
• United Kingdom
10 Sep 08
Oh yes, I knew that! I just mean, you prefer this username as opposed to your real name? Andrew
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
23 Sep 08
When I joined mylot, I never knew how important a username could be. I did not pay much attention to frame my user name. I just did it randomly and now when I am questioned about it, I fail to give satisfactory answer for it. First three letters are from my real name and the numbers have been added randomly, the added numbers have not particular significance. I do not mind using my real name, it does not make any difference to me, in fact I would like my friends that they should know me by my real name.
@pillusch (1147)
• Mexico
10 Sep 08
I wonder, too. I'm using a username, because at the start I just didn't know better, and did 'as I was told'. Now, my real name is Georg, and I wouldn't mind if that showed up. I wouldn't put my full name, because of privacy concerns. But using a username makes me feel that I'm creating a different personality, and I don't know why I should do that. I guess it's just something people started to do at the beginning of the Internet, and now it's impossible to stop.
@k1virus1978 (543)
• Singapore
10 Sep 08
I usually won't use my real name in here, i would use nicks like this to take over my name here. Sort of some nick to distinguish own stats.
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@ace_ivann (326)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
Hi magna! I am not using my real name here too in mylot. I am only using my alieas "Ace" which some of my former officemates call me. "Ivann" because it is the aRussian name of my real second name. Using other names instead of my real name keeps privacy about my identity. Of course, I know that there are lots of nice people here, but of course I also want to leave some mystery of myself here in mylot. LOL!
@jetjetkulet (24)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
um.. im using my nickname as my username here i jut add a "kulet" word to make it long hehehe i just want it long :)
@caseytss (34)
• China
10 Sep 08
well,casey is my english name and tss are the initials of my chinese name~~
So,I think the username can be my real name~~
But in chinese forums, I never use my real name because it is not safe, some people will do something bad with this name. And I never use my photos as well, some people will change the photos with photoshop.
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@AamidMS (73)
• India
10 Sep 08
First of all, it's not only in myLot, its everywhere the same, either they like to be known by their nicks, or they don't want others to know their real name, they may feel great having a unique name, uniqueness of name also matters for them.
Also there maybe many users with same names, and some may taunt other by his name, if its nick, it won't matter at all, also nick is a very good reflector of our personal habbits.
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@kylie_quistis (1220)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
For me, I just didn't use my real name because it was pretty common and kinda plain I think, unlike this username, I find it cute and interesting - I get quistis from the name of one of the characters of a RPG game that I once played - so, I decided to use it. Also, most often than not, my real name was being used by others so, I have no choice to think another. As well as, it's more of liking to have an interesting and uncommon name at least, even if it was just a screen name.
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@vinesh_kcm (453)
• India
10 Sep 08
hi buddy.. me too didnt expose my real name, the reason is due to the lack of availability of usernames in the mail id services.. i mostly maintain a common username and so for mylot also i kept the same user name.. there is no other reason here for me in keeping some other name as user name
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@superstef (64)
• China
10 Sep 08
i can't use my real name because it is chinese. i think it's unique to use this username.
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