do you select your friends?

I don't look at people and choose friends because of the way they look. My best friend for the longest time was plus size, and I am not. We became friends because we always laughed together and had fun together. I actually did not like her when I first met her because she came up to me like she wanted to fight me or something. lol.

I do not select a friend base on their body formation because as what I know it is the attitude of the person who matter most and if we have the same way of principles before I will decide to get through with them in the future. For instance I always believe that words in the oldies that are "the same feather flock together" and it is really applied unto me.

always look for what is underneath. and in the heart of the person. Only takes alittle bit to know if they will be a great friend or not hugs

[i]Hi bombshell, you are funny! LOL! When you will not smile, you seems quite strict! LOL! That is also the impression of my friends to me when we first met! Anyway, I am picky about friends and it's just like a magnet when I like a person, her topic, her attitude, her being humble, being down to earth, I can feel it! So, the sincerity of the person through her eyes and words![/i]

Friends are pretty hard t find ,true friends that is.There are many people that I know as on a casual basis,an I like the company they give me,but im not too sure that I would call them friends.Its hard to find someone who will be loyal and who you can trust to the ends of the earth,and thats what a true friend is.There is no way I would choose a friend on the way they look or the way they act.

Very well said! I still go for the attitude in a friend, looks are not important for me, its the way he/she carry herself/himself, and it is important if he/she has manners and the values are intact.. A friend will always be there for you in times of happiness and despair, and will tell you straight into your face if you are wrong..or you commit mistake, in other words, can tell your positive and negative side and still accepts you as you.

i am picky when it comes to making friends in real life but not because of their body. although i won't tell them they are pretty if they are not, or slim if they are fat, right when they are wrong etc i think it's not fair to accept someone as your friend and pull a wool over their eyes most of the time i like people that i can laugh with, share the same interest, not bias and not prideful because i tend to treat people the way they treat me so i won't be nice to them if they are not to me, why should i anyway?

Oh, can I keep you? LOL. I don't usually look at the whole face but I do observe a friend if he/she is talking to me and he/she can look me straight in the eyes. That way, I can know if a person is true to his/her words or not. As for me, I'm a moody person too and don't smile that often. But once you get to know me, you'll know that I'm the sweetest person you'll ever know. hahaha. Ask my BOF (Best Online Friend) neildc. hahaha.