what should i do?
By jessica4red
@jessica4red (41)
Romania
September 9, 2008 3:42pm CST
i've had a boyfriend 1 year ago, and he did some awful things. he said that he loved me and that he wanted to move in with me.after just a month, we had a fight about going home with the bus or the cab.a very insignificant fight.the next day, he said i wasn't right for him because i didn't agree with him.
now, i have another bf, a great one, for almost 11 months now. this last boyfriend started calling me again.he says he wants to get back together & stuff like that.
i've handled the situation very well.what do you think i did?
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3 responses
@medney1988 (560)
• United States
9 Sep 08
Obviously he was immature. You're luck to move on. I'm not sure how arguing about a bus or a cab could be significant but that's okay. It sounds dumb to me. If he calls you again then you need to either change your number or tell your new boyfriend what's going on so that no problems arise in your new relationship.
@jessica4red (41)
• Romania
9 Sep 08
well, i told him to buzz off, changed my number and also told my boyfriend what was going on! and of course that fight was dumb.tell him that too!
anyway, you seem to know me.great answer :]
@jessica4red (41)
• Romania
9 Sep 08
i think those girls are girls with very low self esteem. of course that if you accept this kind of behavior, of course it won't stop. women should respect their selves enough in order not to be seen as puppets with no opinions. we've fought long enough so that we can have the right to express our opinion. we might as well use it!
@medney1988 (560)
• United States
9 Sep 08
no problem... it just aggravates me because some girls enjoy that type of drama. and while they will never admit it it's like a game to them. another girl would have kept it a secret and still had conversations with that guy. gross!! some people just need to grow up
@Sarah1108 (310)
• United States
9 Sep 08
I would stop taking the ex boyfriend's phone calls. He broke up with you for a dumb reason and he may only be talking to you to see if he has control over you to make you break up with your current boyfriend. Another reason i would stop talking to him is think if one of your current boyfriend's ex girlfriends starting calling him and wanting to get back together would he i am sure that would really hurt you.
@jessica4red (41)
• Romania
9 Sep 08
yeah, you're right. anyway, i have enough self esteem to know that he's no good and i also love my boyfriend too much to still talk to my ex. so, i've changed my number.
thanks for the answer :]
@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
9 Sep 08
I would hope you told him to bug off! You shouldn't be expected to always agree with anyone. You have your opinion and they have theirs; that's called life! And he can't accept that so I'd never invite him back into my life only to have him do it all over again!
@jessica4red (41)
• Romania
9 Sep 08
of course.he deserves someone like himself: selfish & stupid. thanks for the answer :]
