How important is trust in getting married?

Trust is right there on the top of the list of important ingredients in a good relationship. If I didn't know the man well, I for one thing would not be considering him as a life partner. I would not try to stop him from doing anything at all. I'd just watch and see and hope that he is all that I "think" he is. Yes, it is very hard but you have to trust. Trying to control...it just doesn't work. Until you trust the love so much that you have no worries, then you should not get married. For me...i tend to trust until i'm given a reason not to. Maybe I should clarify...I didn't question or try to stop. Building trust takes time and it is hard in the beginning. seriously...the only way you are going to know if you can trust your man is to not try to stop him from doing what he'll probably do anyway. Trying to stop him will only cause conflict.

Of course trust is very important in a marriage. For me, there are three things that should always be present in a marriage: Love, Respect and Trust. Without any one of these, the marriage will crumble. In addition, you should really know the person you love. If you know that he is not the type to fool around, then there's no need to worry. I am lucky to have a very trustworthy husband. Another thing that makes me confident that he will not fool around is the knowledge that he loves and respects me so much that he will not do anything to destroy my trust.

Well, Trust is a big issue for sure, and then there are the women that get jealous even if their husband, or husband to be even says Hi!! to another woman. Seriously, it would depend on the situation, but for me, if you really are wanting to Marry a guy, shouldn't you know what they are like before you even consider marrying them? If you cannot Trust them then, then how are you going to be able to trust them when you get married either? Just my thoughts.

It is the most important for me. Me and my wife have a plenty of trust with each other that's why we have a happy family. But sometimes, there is an ups and downs with the relationship and trust plays an important role on it.

i wouldnt even concider marrying a guy unless i trusted him, trust is very important.. As important as love, they just go hand in hand for a good healthy relationship.. And sometimes you must allow each other space, you cant be always together 24/7 you would just suffocate hehe I would defiantely let the guy have his bachelar party, as id be having my girly night anyway keep man happy, not nag, allow him some space and little freedom i beleive he not want to do anything foolish as not want loose the person plus you showing him you trust him have a nice day hatley

trust is HUGE in any relationship.. with out it it will take its toll and ruin the relationship.. if u cant trust your husband/wife to go out n have fun with friends or even do daily/normal things that need to be done with out worrying bout what they are doin.. then its gonna take its toll and ruin what u have.. bottom line.. if u dont fully, 100% trust your spouse.. i wouldnt get married in the first place.. seems today's world gets bored of a person fast.. like people get tired of seeing the same person after a lil while which is disappointing and makes more n more people uneasy and less trust worthy with their spouse..

Trust is very important. If you cannot trust your soon-to-be husband, then you are going to have a lot of problems with your marriage. If you cannot trust him, then you probably want to think about why you are with him?

If you cannot trust your husband to be then your marriage is doomed from the start. If you start telling him or he you who you can see or be with even for his bachelor party your going to have problems. Trust is the ultimate in beginning and maintaining any relationship. If they love you they will respect your feelings. If he does cheat he intended to all along. You should marry your best friend not some stranger. Too many people go into a relationship too soon and often with the wrong person. They think they have to find some perfect love and that the one they marry cannot be a best friend but that is a huge mistake. Marry your best friend and you most the time will have a lasting marriage. Because you know you can trust them.

[i]Hi Hatley, It is next to love I would say! love plus trust will help any relationship work great and last lifetime! It is hard not to have any trust, you will find meaning of every actions, words and mood of your partner, it gives so much stress and headaches and gives a lot of fights over non-sense issue! SO, in general, there will be no peace in a relationship when trust is absent![/i]

Well, when I saw the heading of your post I didn't think it would be about cheating. Trust is very important, and it is as well very important as far as 'flings' outside marriage or partnership are concerned. But it is far more fundamental for me than that. I could live, or continue to live and be in a relationship where my partner 'did'it with somebody else. But I couldn't do that if that would involve a lie that was consciously conceived to hide it from me.

Trust is everything. If you cannot trust where you are going how can you go there ? The best thing is probably to drop all the speculation when you decide to place your trust in someone and enjoy your time there. If it doesn't work at least you enjoyed it.

trust is very important to every relationship. without trust i don't think the relationship will really work out for it will only cause misery to one or both of the couple. hope this helps. :)

Yeah no doubt you have to have trust not only in marriage but a relationship of any sort. Lack of trust only causes problems that lead to more problems. If someone is going to cheat they are just going to do it. Marrying someone does not mean they will follow the marriage agreement. So it is very important that you trust the person before you get married. If you have any serious doubts you should probably consider waiting on marriage. Its better to wait and no for sure then get married and found out when its to late.

Trust in marriage is essential I think... He is the person that you chose to spend your life with and you must be very united to be happy with that person.

i think the word TRUST is the key to a successful marriage.In marrying someone that means you entrust your future as well as yourself with that person.

Trust is the most vital thing in marriage without it, marriage is a wreck. One could be very suspectful at times and you can't obtain a peace of mind if you keep on doing that, if you think your partner are into something, talk to him about it. If your relationship is not working right then seek advice from specialized consultants, if your relationship is alright then, one should leave off the issues of jealousy and such like.

I do agree that trust is important in any relationship especially marriage. It can really become a serious threat to the marriage if the trust is broken. A bachelor party can be a prime example of knowing how trustworthy you feel your other half is. If you are bothered with a man going to one of these parties then they might be issues already that are going to become problematic later on.

its not that easy to let your man walk in to a strip club with other men, where gorgeous women are carvorting on poles in nothing more than stilletoes, its a bad thought to any good woman with a good head on top of her neck and with the focus of marrige in mind,but what does one do? yes it bothers you when your man says he is going to a bachelor party, but also you dont want to look like the controlling possive freak.As a woman you just have to trust your man to go to the bachelor's or the strip club, it takes an amount of effort to trust that the man will not be tempted to touch or write down a number or worse, but if you decide to be the controlling type, then the chances of this man doing such things behind your back are high, better let him go, so yes absolute trust is necessary, because even if you stop him from going to the stripper's club or the stag night, if he is the cheating type, he will still cheat on you

I think it is important for everyone , but at the same time not everyone can do it well. It is wise for you to do that ,as for me ,I am not a woman with a great mind like you. I trust my husband and give him a space for himself ,but I can't make a chace to let him have a extra-marital affair.

Trust is a very big thing in being married. If you dont have trust than more than likely the marriage wont last.