How can you differentiate between "Liking Someone and truly Loving Somebody"?

@brisk123 (2823)
India
September 9, 2008 10:52pm CST
Is there a way to find out?I have a friend,who keeps saying he is confused.He don't know whether he just like a person or really started loving that person?This is disturbing him.He wants to get committed to that person and at the same time,not very sure of his feelings for her.What do you suggest?
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9 responses
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
12 Sep 08
I think Liking a person is just a way of appreciating once beauty or attitude of a person but Loving a person is like a way that he/she is so important for you in any special things that you do in your life for an inspiration in life it might be......
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
12 Sep 08
Few simple words but you have said it so beautifully my friend.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
12 Sep 08
Thank you for the Best Response friend......
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
he may have mistaken it for infatuation that is if he is confuse because if one loves someone ,one does not doubt as what his feelings for that person.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
24 Sep 08
I agree with you my friend,when we are truly,madly and deeply in love and so committed to each other,I don't think there should be any kind of doubt or confusion in a relationship.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
10 Sep 08
i think these are steps of love. liking someone means the fondness has started but there is no certain way to know whether it is true love or not., its confusion session. then after sometime that can change to true love.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
10 Sep 08
Exactly,this is also true.Happy myLotting!
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
Liking someone is a passive, temporary, fleeting emotion, unlike truly loving someone is a strong emotion that involves commitment to the other. Althoug loving someone also encompass liking the other cuase you cannot love that person if you havent like him/her in the first place however, liking someone doesnt necessarily mean that you are truly loving that someone. Its like when we saw a person shoes or some things we couldnt say we love them, but if you say you truly love your husband or wife you would'nt deny that you havent liked them in the first place. As for your friend, maybe he should establish his reasons if he likes the person or loving that person already. As I previously defined, liking is a fleeting emotion and loving is permanent one.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
10 Sep 08
You said it all my friend.You know what I think I better should send him the screen shot of all this discussions,so that he can understand and picture his feelings towards her.Happy myLotting!
@jollibee (57)
• United States
10 Sep 08
when you say like for me it means infatuation. you just like a certain thing or qualities that he/she had. love means to me,is accepting who really he is,he's background,(without judging his past), and the weaknesses that he got.when you see his the one that you can share a life with. that love for me.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
10 Sep 08
Exactly!Loving someone means accepting each other for who we are and what we are without judging anything about that person's background,religion,his/her weakness,etc.Liking can also come in the category of infatuation,and not commitment to a relationship.Happy myLotting!
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
When you like someone, I think that's about it. You just like that person and you don't put much thought into that. Truly loving someone requires deep thoughts and ideas about spending time together and growing old together. If you can't see yourself spending the rest of your life seeing that same person everyday, then that's probably not love. If you truly love someone, you'd do anything for that person.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
10 Sep 08
This makes sense my friend and I totally agree with you.When a person is committing himself/herself to the other person,it requires a deep thought about how they are going to spend the rest of their lives together.He/she plans for future and the thought of growing old together makes them happy,not scared.Good day!
@riyasam (16556)
• India
10 Sep 08
if there is a physical attraction,then it should be love otherwise it is plain like.happy posting
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Sep 08
I think if you love somebody you know and that you shouldn't make a commitment if you're not sure.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
10 Sep 08
Yup,you are absolutely right my friend.I love my fiance and I know my feelings for him and I am committed.
@reoko10 (578)
• United States
10 Sep 08
Thats smiple if you just like some one then you are not attracted to them and you just like to hang out with them, Now if you love some one you are attracted to them and you just can't stop thinking about them you want to be with thme all the time.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
10 Sep 08
Yup,same here I cannot stop thinking about my fiance and I always want to be with him but sad he is not in the town.I haven't seen him for months.Good day!