would you end it or not?

I would end it immediately. Relationships are built on honesty and trust. If from the very beginning, she was lying to me, then there was no honesty from the beginning. How can you trust someone who lied to you from the very start?

I most certainly would end it..not only is he already married but the big factor for me is he straight up lied to me and I have NO tolerance for that at all not to mention the fact that if he lied about something as major as that the gods only know what else he's lied about.

Well I am a little different, I never wanted to marry especially someone I love and I always thought I could be a better mistress than a wife.So if I found out that my love was already married it would be okay.I wouldn't end it. I would be a little upset that he couldn't tell me earlier, especially if we had discussed my views of marriage.

yes it should be ended because if they cheated on there mates they will cheat on you, and they have no respect for there mates they want have respect for you. These people that continue the relstionship with the cheating person, has no respect for themselves to go so low to have some ones else Man or women.

I'd end the relationship IMMEDIATELY, if not before. If he/she will cheat on their spouse, they'll cheat on you.

I would end it. The problem with this relationship is that there are many casualties. Your lover's wife or husband and their families and relatives' lives will be broken. Some people are foolish and brave enough to go on with the relationship and sad to say it happens a lot nowadays. Even with this kind of scenario, they still can never get away due to KARMA. Revenge is sweet isn't it.

I would not even hesitate to end it. Firstly, the fact that I would have only just found out would mean that this person was being dishonest in the first place; and secondly there is very little chance of anything serious coming out of it because they would be undoubtedly looking to have their cake and eat it too so to speak! There are also the moral and ethical reasons behind why this would be so very, very wrong. This is someone's husband or wife!

I will end up my relationship. First he/she is not real, and second you can look for a better one and one who will marry you.

I will try to read her mind, if she truely loves me then i dont find any problem with that. But i still request her to leave the other. If not, i will continue to be as it is and show him the true love as she does.

Yes of course, I would end it. There's no point in prolonging something thats bound to end anyway. You're definitely at the losing end especially if your a girl. Don't create illusions that he would leave his wife or family and choose you. And even if he would, girl, You wouldn't have peace of mind for sure. He cheated on his wife, he can very well do it to you in the long run. Its worthless. Dump the guy and move on, there is someone out there for you and only yours alone. Its not good karma to wreck somebody else's family. I hope you come to your senses, it may hurt initially but believe me, you would be at peace. goodluck....

there are terms like divorce and annulment. =) i would have to consider if my guy is already a father, if not, i would want him to choose between me and his current wife. but i will never ever compete with his child, coz i believe that the child needs my guy more than anybody else.

bf/gf married or not after breakeoff, I prefer they to be my best friend at least our x already well know who you r, and they absolutely can give the best advise ever

no doubt about it... i would definitely end the relationship right away... even if it's just a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, i would do the same... how much more if he is already tied with another woman... and to think not just an ordinary bond --- it's a sacred bond that ties them together... and i would also have to think about the wife's side... that would be very painful for her. of course she wouldn't like it. and if i'll be in her shoe, i would not like it either.. so i'll just have to stay back.. it's easier to fix a broken heart coz it would heal in time than break a marriage and be bothered by your conscience for the rest of your life...

It's best to end it or else you will hurt other people's heart and also put yourself into trouble. What's the point of living in fear of being caught by 'the spouse'? He cheats on his wife and he can do that to you too. It's not worthy to have a relationship to someone not loyal. Put yourself in his spouse shoe and think about it. You deserve a better person girl.

Of course I would PRONTO. Why? ---Why should I continue the relationship if I know that he will never be mine legally (unless he files for a divorce---but until he is divorced, no way). It would be very hard to have and continue a relationship if you know that you are the "illegal" partner. Not only will you feel bad, but people will also look at you differently --if you know what I mean.

I think even it will be hard for me to let go, I will just let go for reason that I love her very much,and I just don't wanna ruin anyones life and a family that is intact.It wont be the end of the world to me to let go just seeing her happy with her family. They need her more then me. Time will just heal the wounds and somehow their is someone for me in time. Have a nice day!

I would end up the relationship without sorrows. I don't want to destroy other family. You can't build your own happiness on the sadness of others. Besides, how can I trust this person any more.

as fast as i could i would split up. i dont want to have a relationship with a married man. first its a sin, second ill be ruining a family and three i dont want to have a bad karma.

i have to end up our relationship even if i love him. the thought that he's married will make me fall out of love with him and can't be trusted.he don't have the heart to tell me that he's married how dare him...also, i don't want to ruin a family, my conscience won't allow that..time will come that "the one" for me will come soon..(",) happy mylotting!

Im assuming that your scenerio means that the person is still with his/her spouse and not even yet seperated? If that were the case, I'd end it immediately. Why? A few reason. First, THEY ARE MARRIED lol .. that person belongs to someone else, who am I to step in someone elses marriage? I'd never want to be the person that breaks (or helps too) up a marriage. If it's going to end, I'd want it to do it on it's own, for whatever failures it's endured, but I wouldn't add to them. Second, if I'm with someone and have been with them long enough to 'fall madly in love', to quote you, then he must be a pretty sneaky, deceitful liar to keep a wife from me. I definately wouldn't want to spend my future with someone I'd always question and never fully be able to trust.