get marriage? divorce?

In my experience, divorce is unfair on the richer party, normally the man. Since for long marriages (over 12 years) the division of family assets would normally start at 50-50, and then a larger share will be given to the party with the children, normally the woman. This is totally unfair. The man has missed out on family life to work hard and pay for everything and he is doubly punished on divorce (normally caused by the woman) - losing contact with hsi children and most of his assets, plus having to pay bsurd levels of 'fathers tax'. It is not surprising that so many women decide to ahve their cake and eat it knwoing they will be rewarded for dumping the man and taking his money and children, even if they are the ones who have wrecked the marriage. I think that prenuptial agreements should be binding and that you shoudl get out what you put in - as with unmarried couples - it is far fairer finacially. If we did not have a winner takes all system which rewarded people (normally the woman) for wrecking marriages I am sure more relationships would last longer and everyone, but particularly the children, would be happier in the long run.