Do you also wonder how some do it?

A positive attitude is one great key in achieving lifes balance and delay aging.. I have a friend who is fifty years old but looks like she is on her thirtees..I asked her whats her secret, and just smile at me.. that's it.. she always put a happy face as much as possible, positive attitude towards life's problems or difficulties is a must for her, stop worrying, look for a positivity in everything because that is where we can achieve success.. she dress so well, because she once told me that when you look good, you feel good.. and she takes good care of her health eating healthy foods... As a woman, we need to pamper ourselves, she said, never ever let your man see you with an un-comb hair and a bare face.. :) .. love yourself because you can give more love that way.. :) have a great day!

lol yeah ive wondered that alot thier hair is always done always wearing make up looks great ^^ thier house is generally perfect too lol. I am definatly not one of those ppl. i spend my day just trying to keep up lol. but i have found out alot of those ppl are generally unhappy and fake although thats just an opinion ^^

I believe this has to do with schedule and help . I know someone like this and could never figure out how she was able to do everything while I was always running around with my head cut off and never getting anything accomplished and it wasn't from lack of tryng and then I got pregnant and ended up on a schedule where everything was always the way I wanted it . The house was always tidy , I never had to worry about the children , and seemed to have so much time for myself and wondered how I had never managed this before . This lasted for about a year and a half and then everything went back to being crazy once again and it seemed no matter how hard I tried I couldn't get anything done again , which then really bothered me because I knew I could do it . I had did it when I was pregnant . I have come to the conclusion that I must have had more help when I was pregnant and was able to accomplish more because I had others to help me out if not all the time at least some of the time and even a little bit of help makes things so much easier when you are trying to get things done . Maybe I am wrong but I no longer have the help and can't seem to manage like I could back then and I know at the time it didn't seem like I was getting a lot of help but I do remeber that others were quicker to offer to do something when they would stop by to visit , even if it just meant putting one of the other children to bed for me or changing one of them while I was finishing up the dishes . And I think even this small bit of help meant I wasn't alone in trying to do everything myself

yes i have wondered how people do it it seems impossible to keep a clean house with a 2&3 year old contsantly going behind you and destroying it again. and as for make up i just wonder what the sense is if your at home or just going to the grocrey store ect why take that few mins that you dont really have to put on make up i mean who are you going to impress with 2 screaming kids and futer most why would you want to impress at all but alot of moms say it just makes them feel good and in a way i can see but i never have the time i feel my days of being able to feel good will be when they are both in school and prolly not then more like when there half way grown and can take care of themselves for the most part

in certain task women are very systematic. they are also very particualr how their house should be, what shuld be kept where etc. she is always loaded with more work than any man. she has to be a woman, a daughter, a wife, mother, freind. well she is a multiple personality rolled into one. all in one. her mind is like a super computer, multitasking. planning what is tobe done next. i appreciate them for all the sacrifices they make for their beloveds.

I know lots of people like that - and I'm definitely not one of them! I just get a list of stuff that NEEDS to be done, and do that, and not worry about the rest. If I get just one bit of the cleaning done - I'm happy I think if you get the important things done, you know, things like dinner on the table, clothes washed and manage not to strangle the kids when they are fighting or arguing, then it's been a good day. Relax more, have fun and don't worry so much if your house is a tip and you look like a dog's dinner!

I usually wonder more about these people , most of them i find they dont do they work well i mean take my aunty she is also like your sister ( i dint mean your sister is like my aunty) she does all thw ork but there wouldn't be anything clean i mean if she sweeps the house , it will not be perfect , if she washes the vessels that is not fully washed like that but she is always takes bath and do all sort of make ups and always stays fresh and in another side i have seen people who does all the work because they have someone at home for all the things other than that i have not yet met people who do all things perfect and stays fresh as you have stated as i have seen more people who manages time but fails to follow it..

wow thats like a wonderwoman story to me. Personally its hard to keep your house clean when you have two youngs kids whose always playing and making mess. I have two kids and i can't do the laundry myself so we would hire someone to do the laundry for us.Im a working mom so i dont have enough time to do all those household chores but then i always try to do or to give my best in giving my family the care that they need. with regards to your neighbor i think proper disposition in life is a very vital thing looking blooming all the time.Perhaps she has a proper disposition or she must be very happy and contented thats why she doesn't look so old or so haggard. happy mylotting, cheers!

Balance is the key. Try modifying your attitude about life. and pamper yourself more often. Don't react on negative things and always find some minutes to have your own space. when you boys fight, don't try to be in control. People are stressed and get tired because of stress in life. Maybe you're pushing yourself too much. Try to smile and relax... remember we cannot control everything... And another is we cannot give what we don't have. SO when you're tired don't overdo yourself. When you're up, take care of all thigns. BUt when your down, call you security blanket? pray to God talk to children Talk to God. Or exercise! Exercise realeases happy hormones.. Take vitamins too!

It may be possible that their just good with time management and how they properly address the current situations as quickly as possible. Some people are really good on managing their time and making hard tasks look easy. Yes its true that household chores demand a lot of your time, but if you address it properly and manage your time well, I'm sure you'll also be looking fresh and beautiful as your sister-in-law looks.

I have no idea how they do it! I would love to look like I didnt just run thru the house getting dressed and flying off to work!