Serious Question: should I be worried?

flyrichgirl, I had to take a phone call so I cut my earlier response short. Pedophiles come in all shapes, sizes and colors. They are usually charming...that's how they lure children into bad situations. Sometimes they are very careful about what they say and do but, sometimes, they like to play little games just to see if they can get away with it. What this man said to you gave you a little window into his mind. It's not something that someone jokes about. He is attracted to your little girl and you have an obligation as her mother to protect her from possible harm. Whether he would hurt her or not, you really can't take the chance. I'm sure you would rather still be wondering ten years from now instead of living with the pain of knowing that you brought a child molester into your home who hurt your daughter.