re: Am I really not black enough for my sister?

I'm sorry to hear that about your sister. Actually my mom is going through the same thing well kind of with her sister. Its a whole nother different situation to why they aren't talking. My mom has sent her letters left messages and everything still she doesn't speak to her and even at the family reunion she ignored her. Its kind of sad because they used to be so close and I used to be close to my aunt until she stopped talking to my mother and she never even came to my wedding. But all in all all you can say is that you tried and there's nothing more that you can do, but pray for her and hope she comes around and see how important sisters are to one another. My mother still sends her birthday cards and mothers day cards and christmas gifts and all. My mom always says kill them with kindness. Just do that, who knows she may come around eventually and there maybe something even more that might be bothering her. I say just give it time.