I am in love with my best friend but hw do I say to her. If she !!!!

Well if you are in love with your best friend then the relationship and your view towards that friend must have changed ....right. So even on the other side i.e your friends side ..there must have been an indication of the change that must have been reflecting from your attitude. Best way is hunt for an opportunity and try expressing.But make one thing sure ...note down your friendship interactiveness that you have now.SO that in case if that friend of yours feels in a different manner about you then you at least will not loose a friend whom you regard as a best friend. What say?Do you agree? Friendship is what one must care for more.Because only such a friend can make you happy

U must think before you do some actions... Are you ready to accept everything might happen after saying your feelings to her?You should know what are the consequences that might happen after telling your feelings for her. You might lose your friendship or she maybe inlove with you too and also want to be not only just a bestfriend but more than that.. Goodluck! happy mylotters!

Only you can solve this puzzle. How would you approach a stranger who you wanted to get to know better and start dating? Think about it. The only difference here is that you already know the girl. You could start a discussion with her about someone else to see how she would react. For instance tell her that someone you know has this problem and see what she thinks about it. Or you could just tell her that you like her a lot and would like to date her. She may have picked up that are interested but done nothing because she is not interested in you that way or she may have no idea. Communication is the only way to solve this problem. Relationships based on friendships are often very sound but it you never tell her how you feel then you will get no where.

2 way to solve your puzzle no meter what is the result because she is not a mentalist right? 1 TALK , SAY TO HER WHAT YOU FEEL 2 ACT Like Normal don,t over protected , act like nothing happen , show your love but don,t overact because she will feel weird ( just slowly but sure) ( i know is hard to do but if you done this , you will get her heart) i never done this , but this is the trick from my friend he is a Guru of love , hehehehe

I think first you need figure out how much you love your best friend. If you don't love her that much, just keep the relationship as usually, because there always will be some risk if you tell her your feelings, and maybe you can't be as good as before. But if you love her a lot, tell her your feeling about her.

she is your best friend, i think you know her too much. and if she doesn't have boyfriend yet, go ahead, i think you can know what she need, and what's her habit. how to do the things make her happy. got a good chance to tell her, i think you should let her know, don't put it just in your heart.

i think you need to be frank with her.if she has feelings for you,she will reciprocate.better you and her not to be in the dark.

hello lovely_byte! most of the time one of the bestfriends fall for the other. or at times both fall for each other. better weigh first how your bestfriend value your friendship or if your friend is somewhat open for a relationship with you. like with my experience, my bestfriend fall for me. honestly i rejected his proposal. i value our friendship so much. he's been like a brother to me. he even sleep with me in my room and at times eat with my family. i felt so betrayed. that i was thinking that he was not a real friend all along.. love is really about taking risk. it is your decision, to take the risk for your friendship and for your feelings!!! goodluck... hope to hear from you when you already decided what to do...

I don't know how exactly will help you.. But this is just my idea, if you really love her then tell her the truth for you to find out if she also have the same feeling for you.. Just make sure that you're sure that you are ready to hear all the things that she will say and most of all you can stand and accept it gently.. Sometimes, telling to your friend that you love her/him more than a friend is really hard because you are already risking your friendship to her/him..So just be ready to all the things she will say.. Well, it is better to tell what you really feel so that you don't need to fool your self and most of all you are true to her.. Just make sure that if you will tell her your feelings, she is in the mood to listen and no problems thinking in mind so that she will not be over react with what she have heard...

If you love her then just tell her. But remember one thing that she is your best friend. No matter what her answer is, just don't let it suffer your friendship. Even i once fell in love with my best friend. But she refused me. From that day we didn't talked about that topic again and still are best friends. So don't care about her response. Don't let it suffer your friendship.

yeah this is a tough thing.. im in the same situation but the bad part for me is she is seeing someone right now ahah.. so im kinda stuck holding back.. but i would say yes.. tell her.. but dont be too upfront bout it.. make sure not to scare her away.. u dont want her thinkin your only friends with her cuz u like her in a deeper way.. cuz good friendships are hard to come by.. but holding back those feelings takes its toll ahah.. i know.. so let her know but be sure to really think hard bout how your gonna tell her and dont take it personal is she doesnt feel the same.. good luck..