Do you have one incomplete conversation in your life?

India
September 11, 2008 2:27am CST
In our life we meet people some of them just pass by and some of them do pass by but take our heart with them as well. We make conversations, call it destiny or misfortune they leave you and sometimes with something in complete unsatisfied thoughts and conversations with you. In my life I had this guy with whom I was in kind of a relationship no doubt I loved him a lot but things went wrong and we parted I made the last call to him, I wanted him to clear things up for each and every misunderstandings I have for the last time at least. I asked him many questions but I never got any answer.. Now we have parted and now I wish if I wouldn't hung up on him I may have got the answers I wanted from him... But after that he never called. I tried calling him after a month but he changed his number. I wish before our break up at least he would have cleared things up for me. Do you have any Incomplete conversation in your life. It can be with the person is no more on this earth.. Thank you for sharing these important moments of your life.
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4 responses
cupid74
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
13 Sep 08
Hi Stella well i dont have such discussion, and once u decided to finish any relation then why need to clear the things Done is Done Take care
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stella1989
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
13 Sep 08
I finished that relation because things were not clear.. That's why I am wishing if he ever cared to clear things off for me. thanks for your response.
cupid74
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
15 Sep 08
Hmmmm transparency nmake relation strong Wish u all the Best Take care
James72
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
11 Sep 08
I am not sure if I have any "incomplete" conversations as such from my past but I do have some instances where there are conversations I would like to have with certain people that I have never had the chance or the guts to start. I think we all have instances in our lives where people have wronged us or hurt us and we would like to have the strength to REALLY tell them how we feel about it. But we haven't acted because we know deep down it would be pointless or we just don't have the strength to confront them.
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stella1989
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
11 Sep 08
Thank you for your response.. Yes that's true some times its the fear within us which makes us like this. But dear James I was here talking about any conversation with you ever left incomplete .. like someone while leaving said something wasn't able to complete his/her statement or you were unable to convey your true feelings to someone.
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James72
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
11 Sep 08
I do understand your question! I was just pointing out that I did not have any "incomplete" conversations outstanding as such but moreso ones I wish I had initiated. Maybe in a sense they are one and the same thing? There are many conversations I wish I had of had or COULD have with my Father for example but I know it would be pointless.
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samson1967
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
13 Sep 08
It is essential to complete all the conversations in order to get a peaceful sleep, which is necessary for healthy life and mind. Before going to sleep I ensure to complete all the talks with the related persons, coz who knows whether I wake up in the morning. Secondly my meditation helps me a lot to keep away unnecessary thoughts, I suggest you to meditate to lead a peaceful life.
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maple_kisses
@maple_kisses (2156)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Not just one, I've had more than "unfinished" business with other people; with my ex-boyfriend, my ex-husband, and most recently, with my father. It's sad that my Papa and I "fell apart" with such sand ending. There are so many things that I wanna ask him, so many things I wanna know, that I wanna confirm and even things I want him to deny. I love my Papa so much but it seems so difficult to have a complete conversation with him, it's either he'll get so mad he'll stop the conversation or I get so hurt I'll stop listening. Now he "ended" up this "father-daughter business" and I'm left alone more frustrated and incomplete...
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stella1989
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
13 Sep 08
that's very sad to hear about your relation with your father. I must tell that even my father is going in the same direction. He gets mad very very easily.. and because of that he never understands what I want to say and at one point I get so frustrated that I stop listening to him. I must he even hurts me physically some times.. Because of all these reasons I have no plan to live with them as soon as I make my career.. I don't want to live in this jail anymore.. thanks for sharing.