Are you very selective in making friends?

India
September 11, 2008 6:24am CST
do you accept people immediately as your friend when you meet them first time or you take sometime....i think no one would make friends immediately...i am very selective in choosing friends....
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• India
11 Sep 08
yeah i am very selective in making friends. i have very few ones but are all are really good ones. i am very co-operative in nature and like people who care for others and that's the quality first i want in my friend.
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• India
11 Sep 08
ya my friend do care a lot about me...we are lucky to have such friends...happy myloting..
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• India
11 Sep 08
yeah i feel very lucky to have such friends. number of friends doesn't matter to me number of good and trusted friends matter to me. i really trust people very easily. but it takes time to open with new people. but after being my friend i care a lot. would you like to be my friend??
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
11 Sep 08
Yes I am. I have learned this from my own experience. Unfortunately I am gullible and trust so much and people do take advantage of that. so better safe than sorry.
• India
11 Sep 08
ya mee too had some similar experience....happy myloting...
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
11 Sep 08
I am extremely selective in making friends in real life, but here on myLot less so, as here "friends" can be deleted. I don't like to delete myLot friends, though, and do it rarely, so when a friend request shows up I do go look at the person's profile and view a ffew discussions before making a decision. If the person is just into making money online or has a dirty mouth or posts a lot but doesn't reply to existing friends, then that is an automatic reject.
@zeny_zion (1283)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
yes, cause we have to get along well. how can we stay with each other for long time if were not vibes. ive a friend who lived in other country. shes my friend since college. now we are married and got kids we still do have communications.
@rainmark (4302)
11 Sep 08
As what i have experienced about friends. Now i a selective to choose whom i woud be friend. I never accept them friends right away. I observed them at first, and find if we have same interest and she could be trustworthy and good friend.I'm never choose them because they are good looking but i select friends through their attitudes.
@rina312 (296)
11 Sep 08
I don't think i'm VERY selective but yes quite am. Usually you know when you want to be friends with someone if the other person has a lot in common with you. It can only take seconds. Even after a first meet. But I think I might want to know a new friend well enough first to make sure im comfortable with anything when it comes to him/her. Nowadays people are difficult to be trusted.