she warned me if i did this again she'll leave me
By sirfsuraz
@sirfsuraz (468)
Nepal
September 11, 2008 6:28am CST
I blamed her in something that she never did just in joke. She took it seriously and she was very angry with me. I asked for forgiveness so manytimes but lastly after 2 days of trying she forgiven me and warned me if i continued this she'll say good bye to me.
What do you think? did she forgave me for her kindness or is that love and care she still give to me. I don't have other friends, my friend circle has so small radius. She is the only one whom i shared with. But she have lots of friends to hear her, care her and satisfy her. Did she forgave me or she just showed did her duty of humanity?
If she is going to leave me next time i did this, will she be together with me next time or forever?
5 responses
@divinegwapa (914)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
First of all, I think you have to talk to her about it. What made her so mad? Is it the act of joking or the joke itself? If you find out that she doesn't want to be joked around then by all means you have to stop if you want her to stay. That's how love work, give and understand.
Secondly, the fact that she still forgave you simply means that she still loves you. Maybe she was jut in a bad mood when you teased her. I wouldn't really know so I highly encouraged you to go talk to her about it to settle things once and for all.
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@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
12 Sep 08
thanx for your suggestions fren. I hope it'll really work. But now new problem is there. I am possesive, I don't want her to go alone anywhere, I don't want her flirting with other guyz, I don't want her desciribing about other guyz by saying that "he's so cute, handsome.. Wish you were like those guyz". I know she is just trying to make me jealous and i just become jealous here.
But the problem is that, she stopped sharing her things with me. Whenever I see her face with me, She is always sad upset and angry, I often call her. She doesn't talks with me properly. She talks to me like a receptionist does to their clients. I am so much sad. I wish some body vandalize my me. I don't dare to survive in this word. I am feeling so much weak, lonely, lost, confuzed.
@divinegwapa (914)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
Hmmm. Just give her time first. I'm sure she'll be her old self again. Just make sure that you always make her feel that you love her and she is important to you. Maybe, you could ask her out for a special date one of these days. Just a suggestion. ^^
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@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
12 Sep 08
we often meet but i've realized that we've never dated. I will ask for her a date one day.
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
11 Sep 08
To accuse somebody of something they didn't do is quite frankly cruel and not material for a joke. She forgave you because she loves you. But I can see how she might leave you, if you continue this behavior. You might want to re-examine your social life. Could it be that you don't have many friends because your attitude stinks? Not many people will put up with cruel jokes like that. It's not fun. It's hurtful. And you most definitely don't do that to somebody you claim you love!
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
11 Sep 08
if your friend does not understand your sense of humor than you have a small problem with her. Try to talk about it. Try to make her see the funny side of your joke.
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@jessica4red (41)
• Romania
11 Sep 08
well, i don't think she'll leave you, but you shouldn't do things to her that she doesn't like. i think you should really be careful and thoughtful and try to make her happy. she has forgiven you because she loves and because she knows that you can't finish a relationship like this. i'm sure you'll work it out :]
