Bad guys really do get the most girls
By gabbana
@gabbana (1815)
China
September 11, 2008 10:14am CST
NICE guys knew it, now two studies have confirmed it: bad boys get the most girls. The finding may help explain why a nasty suite of antisocial personality traits known as the "dark triad" persists in the human population, despite their potentially grave cultural costs.
The traits are the self-obsession of narcissism; the impulsive, thrill-seeking and callous behaviour of psychopaths; and the deceitful and exploitative nature of Machiavellianism. At their extreme, these traits would be highly detrimental for life in traditional human societies. People with these personalities risk being shunned by others and shut out of relationships, leaving them without a mate, hungry and vulnerable to predators.
But being just slightly evil could have an upside
According to observations, it seems to hold across cultures
1 response
@Damien2213 (90)
• United States
11 Sep 08
I don't know if I agree with that 100%. I think most girls just want a guy to treat them right, that knows they exist, and shows affection towards them. Some girls get off on the whole bad boy thing. I think it all just comes down to what you prefer and what kind of relationship your looking for and willing to put up with.
@gabbana (1815)
• China
11 Sep 08
by "bad guys" i mean two kinds, one is smart, not real bad at heart, such guys know how to please girls. the other one is bad, sometimes treats his girl bad, but i often see his girl stick to her firmly, very interesting, as if she owed him since the previous life.
such opinion is not from my own point of view but from experts and supported by evidence.
@Damien2213 (90)
• United States
11 Sep 08
Yeah but some of those girls feel trapped and a lot of them feel they may be hurt or even worse killed if they try to leave their man. You also have to take in consideration if she has any kids. The majority of the women feel trapped and they end up staying with someone that is abusive. Its sad but true...