Why did he say he was going to call...
By mlhuff12
@mlhuff12 (797)
United States
September 11, 2008 9:43pm CST
I went out with this guy once. It went well, we both had fun and we both agreed that we wanted to see eachother again. We've been trying to find a time to see eachother again. I get a call from him asking if I wanted to do something today, and I said yes. He said that he'd call back after he watched something on tv. Well it is already 11 pm at night and still no call. Is it possible that he just forgot, or do you think that he never really intended on seeing me again? If that was the case why keep in touch with me?
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11 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
Well with my own opinion if I don't like to see you or have another date with you why should I call and bother you again. A guy wont call you up if he doesn't like you or wants to know you more. Still it's your ball if your gonna go out with him again. Their is always a right time with everything. Take it easy and slow. Maybe he just got to sleepy and fallen a sleep. You can't tell what he went through, so don't conclude,just let it flow,still don't expect. Just let time tell. If he calls you up thank you if he doesn't call you up still thank you anyway it's not the end of the world. If it was really meant for you it will be meant for you,it will happen! Have a nice day!
@wotfpatty (2065)
• United States
12 Sep 08
I hate to say this but whatever the reason (unless something emergent came up), he doesn't sound like someone who can be trusted. Why would he call and ask you to do something then never call back? Sounds a little but self centered to me. Maybe something came up with his friends. Maybe he forgot to call but what does that say about how much he wants to see you if he forgets to call you to see you?
I wouldn't call him if I were you. He knows he was wrong and, if he cares, he'll call and explain what happened. Otherwise, he may just not be that interested and you'll end up with a broken heart if you don't move on.
Good luck. It's very hard to figure men out!!
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Well, I don't think that he called to see if you wanted to do something and then decided that he didn't want to go out with you. I would say that something came up or that he fell asleep and just didn't get to call you. I would not worry about it and see if he calls and offers an explanation. If not, then he isn't interested anyway and you dont' need him.
@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
[b]i can't easily judge that man for his action but there may be some reasons to it. since this discussion was like one day old, are you two still talking to each other? one way of finding out if a person is interested on you or not is to wait until a person does not show any efforts of calling or wanting to see you again. don't worry about things. if this happens then ignore the guy. for sure one day he will realize the loss he had for not calling you back.
maybe during that night something came up and he had to accomplish things that is why he wasn't able to give a ring just as he says so. [/b]
@rekcart83 (149)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Why not ask him and hear it yourself. If the reason he'll give you is that he really forgot then I think he's lying when he said that he also wanted to see you again. Cause if he's really interested in you, he'll never forget his promise just like that. If he said that something just came up suddenly then maybe he's still a little bit interested in you. It's just that you're not his main priority. Maybe he had a lot of girls in his list that he wanted to see again and it just happens that he at that time also has an appointment with another one. Ok I think I said too much. Sorry. But its just all maybe.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
25 Dec 08
He must have realized after the call that he may be out of budget to bring you out or something and that he's too embarrassed to call you again to cancel it. Maybe he think it's better for you to wait a call at home that to wait for him pick you up with you all prepared. That happens usually. It happened to me too and i'm a boy lol! I hate to say this but boys sometimes take things for granted especially when it getting in the way of his interests like television or computers.. that happens really.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
Well just leave it at that. if he forgot then don't bother to remind him at all. Let him call you again since he is the one that initiated the invitation not you. If he calls you back then maybe it is up to you if you really wanted to be with him again as you know him that he either is quite forgetful about things.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
12 Sep 08
There are lot of reasons why he didn't call. Sometimes, expecting things what people told and promised to us that have been broken disappoints and upsets us. He might fell asleep watching tv coz it was already late or maybe you are right he forgot to call you back. If he doesn't want to see you again why would he call you and ask to do something with him. You shouldn't bother yourself too much about that. If he calls and ask you to go out with him again then that is great, and if he wont that is still fine at least you were both given a chance to spent time together and had fun together.
@blackmantra_x (2732)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
Good day.... Just give time to call, maybe something just came up who knows right? Keep cool and you just might receive a ring anytime now.
@callcenterchick (94)
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12 Sep 08
girl if i were you just forget him.. i had an experience that is like that he less me that hes going to call me and his not.....
He thinks that your easy to get and that he can play with you anytime because he thinks that easily believe a person
@solonwa3 (1)
• Israel
12 Sep 08
hi mlhuff12, i think you are making a storm out of a tea cup, the guy must have had some thing that got him down, that is why he did not call back as promised, what you have to do is just wate for his call or betterstill call him back to know what took him so long to call, maybe he is in some kind of sereous problem, that kept him from calling, and you know love is two way thing, you give and take, maybe it is your turn to give by calling