Did you ever try to beg someone to love you?

September 12, 2008 12:16am CST
I have a friend who asked and begged for his boyfriend to stay and she do everything she can to make it work... and his boyfriend says okay and that he is the one who is going to make the conditions like he can still date and have another girlfriend and you dont have the right to complain what will you do
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8 responses
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
advise your friend to stop! if the guy don't love him anymore then set him free..please save her pride and for further humiliation..love herself by letting go the one who's causing her pain..its not end of the world..there's so many fish in the ocean whom she'll make a choice and she can have a good catch in the long run..(",)
@eve301345 (658)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
I have try that before but it turn out to be worse than what I expected and now I really regret that I did that. All I can say with your friend is I hope she is prepared to take the big consequences more than she expected because it will be like that. The right advice really is to just let him go there are to many man out there and for sure she can find better that she deserve.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
I see this as a sign of desperation on the part of the girl to really do this. I just hope that she would realized this as soon as possible as she is grave position to be used by these guy. There is nothing to lose in this on the part of the guy but she is losing in this battle at all.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
For a girl to beg for love is very wrong. It will be in her disadvantage to do so since the man can easily manipulate things around. For in a man there is nothing to lost at all but in a girl there is a lot.
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
12 Sep 08
God, this is the height of humiliation. Please advice your friend not to do so, or he will walk all over her and she will just have to endure in silence. I would never ever allow this to happen, no matter how much I loved that guy. Self respect is very important, and if you dont respect yourself, dont expect the others to respect you too.
@deathvans (301)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
what the!!That's insane! Begging for love! even though you already knew that his seeing with someone else! what the heck is that! For me? I will not allowed that kind of foolishness! that's so stupid! why do you have to beg, there's a lot of people out there who is greater than him. Whew.. But I guess, It can be helped.. Cause when you fall in love, It's difficult to understand. Sometimes you act stupid in front of many people just for the sake of that love.. Oh my.. How old she is anyway?
@punkix (658)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
never beg for love dear, for love should be given unconditionally right? hehe so do not beg for love, have some self diginity to boost up your confidence.
• China
12 Sep 08
i did this before, i begged a guy that be with me, but he didn't have any response. then i think we are over, i was so sad for about a month, then suddenly he called me and said he did wrong before, and wanted me back. but i didn't think he was real loving me, so i refused. back to that time, i think i did so many stupid things, but i learn a lot from that too. life is full of sunshine.