Do you still get jealous?
By aize003
@aize003 (225)
Philippines
8 responses
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
12 Sep 08
Hi friend,I haven't had such an experience.But if it happens I would not feel jealous because am no longer in relation with him.So it doesn't bother me ,if it bothers me then it means am still in love with the person.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.
@FlotsemJetsem (7)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Of course. Everyone does at some point. It's a natural reaction. If someone
claims to not care, then they have serious emotional detatchment issues. Either that or they are lying. Plus you have to take into account if your ex's actions
being scripted to make you feel that way. In most cases, they are. Again, it
comes down to if they admit it or not. After most break ups, the other party
usually feels betrayed or empowered depending upon who initiated the split. So
naturally yours and his actions will differ depending on if your in the same
room or not. Its childish and stupid, yet its the truth.
Now to deal with it....
Keep your distance. Ostrich syndrome and the like. Out of site out of mind.
If you have to see them on a regular basis, such as if you attend the same school
or work in the same building. Then your problem is much harder. Just remind yourself that you are not with that person for a reason. Dont blame yourself for
being jealous. Just remember that whatever is going through your head at the
time. He likely is thinking the same thing about you.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
12 Sep 08
No I don't get jealous over an ex girlfriend. I do treasure the good moments that we had together. But if we decided to move on in our lives we should set each other free. If we have decided to leave each other and lead our own lives than there is no room for jealousy anymore. Despite ending a love relationship it does not mean friendship has to end after all.
@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
i don't ., i am actually happy to see him okay that he has a new girlfriend now since i am into relationships now., i guess we should be both feel happy with each other for having a new partner now.,
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
i'm not in a relationship with him anymore so why the jealousy?when i broke up with him i know for a fact that anything that he'll do i wouldn't care anymore especially having a new girlfriend..and why would i get jealous i'm into relationship also..so instead of knowing my ex activities i would rather focus on my new boyfriend..past is past and live with the present..(",)
happy mylotting! (",)
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
12 Sep 08
Well to be honest, i don't care about what happens in the romantic relationships of my ex. I wish her the best in the world and because i have a new girlfriend i don't care about her private life. I hope she's fine and lives a long happy life with who ever she wants.
@yyfrancine (461)
• China
12 Sep 08
if you were jealous to some one, it shows they means too much to you, i don't have that feeling to my ex-bf, because when the love is gone, he didn't have any relationship with me, he likes a passing by, i think if i still to be jealous, then means i still care about him, oh, thank god, i don't have that feeling. but for the boyfriend right now, i will be jealous, i love him, love makes human be jealous.