what would make you fall out of love?

@shyced (16)
Philippines
September 12, 2008 10:54am CST
If falling out of love is not a choice, but a decision, would these make you fall out of love? 1. infidelity 2. incompatibility 3. distance
4 responses
@lemayan (188)
• Germany
12 Sep 08
i think the first one ofcourse would be infidelity, who wants to live or date with someone who sleeps around, then the nex one would probably distance, its nice to be inlove but how can you say you love a person when you have not seen them for maybe two years?yes they still call and you hear their voice everyday but....... you dont know what they are doing, maybe they are having ones stands everyday and still calling you Biscuit, or they are living with another person and still call you or send money in the case of families, they could also be having another husband or wife wherever they are and you dont know
@INGA832 (1114)
• Russian Federation
12 Sep 08
I guess infidelity can make me fall out of love. I can't be with a person whom I can't trust. Trusting means everything for me in relationships. Besides, I can't forgive and forget the betrayal of close person. But once I broke up with my bf because of distance. I just realize that our relationship has no future.
• United States
12 Sep 08
Falling out of love is not a choice nor a decision. Infidelity would definitely be a cause for me to walk away from my relationship, if it were to happen. The chances are that we would still love the person we were with, but it would be a conscious choice to walk away from the relationship as the trust would be gone.
• United States
12 Sep 08
I would definitely say infidelity because that violates trust and if I can't trust you it doesn't matter how far away or how near you are, I can't trust you. Incompatibility is okay up to a certain point because I wouldn't want my husband to be exactly like me because that would be boring. It's our differences that bring us closer together because we are constantly learning new things with each other that we normally wouldn't. Also, I would have to say if the person was an abuser of psycho or something like that.