Do you miss your first love & would you ever go back to them?

It is always tough when it comes to deciding what path we should take, the right or the easy one. She has to decide what is best for herself and her family. How many hearts will she be breaking? The best way to find out would be to count the number of persons that will be affected if she decides to leave her marriage. It is not that this is the only life she is going to have. We all have many lives and we take certain decisions based on what lessons we need to learn in this life. So, it is better to go on with her current life if it is not an abusive relationship. I really don't understand the statement 'falling out of love'. Why should she have married this guy if she still loved her first love? It is wrong to ruin another's life just because we do not have the strong will to do the right thing.

Well first I tell her to make sure it love and not lust. I would never stay in an unhappy marriage for the sache of the kids, because most of the time if the marriage is unhappy life is too, and an unhappy life is not good for the kids, that's just what I think.

Well my first love was a very long time ago, shows my age, it was over fifteen years ago now, it was special because it was my first love but I certainly do not miss them and would never go back with them, for me it's the past and you should never return to the past, you have to move on with life and never regret the past, it's happened, you can't change it and enjoy the future and there will always be new loves. Your friend is in a very difficult situation and there is no simple answer to be honest, but she only gets one shot at life and she has to be happy but she also has children to think about which makes it much harder. It depends on the state of her marriage whether it's worth staying for the children or getting out.