Which one will you choose, the one you love or the one who loves you?

September 12, 2008 1:34pm CST
Nowadays, loving someone is a big issue. You have to choose the right person to be with for the rest of you life and who will never betray you no matter what happen. Finding that person is really hard..some would say I'd rather wait than looking for the right one to come..if he/she came but still you're still looking for another person to love, some would say i will collect and collect then select...and now, which one will u choose, the one you love or the one who loves you? choose the best guys!!!!
5 responses
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
12 Sep 08
In my opinion love has to be reciprocal between two persons. Its useless to be with someone who loves you but you don't have the same feeling towards him or her. Or vice versa being with someone whom you like but your partner does not feel the same towards you.
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13 Sep 08
But you cannot force the other one to love you back the way you love her..its essy to say that it has to be reciprocal betweeen two persons. lets accept the fact that you cannot love the person 100% the way you expect. thanks!
• Singapore
15 Sep 08
i will choose the one i love...as no matter how much the person love me,as long i don't love her,i can't really feel happy...
16 Sep 08
Sorry but I am confuse with your reply...You said you will choose the one you love but there is a contradicting statement at the end and it says "i don't lover her"...so which one you choose? good day!
• Singapore
16 Sep 08
i mean that if u choose the person who love u....as long u don't love her,u can't be happy...
@rainmark (4302)
13 Sep 08
Maybe it's nice if he loves me and i love him too. But if im going to choose between the two i would choose the man who loves me.You can't force someone whom you love to love you. so it's better to choose the one who cares for you and then, by the time goes by you can learn to love him. happy myloting.
13 Sep 08
you are right!!!!
@ace_ivann (326)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Hi musicandme! Love is perhaps the most special state that everyone wants to experience. I have loved so many times in my life, yet I'm still single now. I have loved, was loved, was hurt a lot of times, but I am still here waiting for that person who will love me unconditionally. In my opinion, it is still best that both of you love each other unconditionally. There you can be loyal and happy with each other's arms. However, if I were to choose between the two, I'd rather choose the one who loves me. Love can be developed eventually. Who wouldn't love a persistent person? Who wouldn't love someone whom you know will love you more than her life? Who doesn't want to be loved by someone whom you know will never leave you during your good and bad times?
• India
15 Sep 08
It is not just about choosing..or rather should it be?? the main thing is that there should be true feelings from both the ends..otherwise its always advisable 2 wait 4 dat to happen. :-)
16 Sep 08
It should be!!! Yes!! there should be a true feelings from both sides but do you think that your partner truly loves you? You will wait for that to happen? How will you know that it happened?