My sister's boyfriend
@megaman2000ph (343)
Philippines
September 12, 2008 6:41pm CST
This is my question my sister has a boyfriend and sometimes she invites her at her room and this is her 2nd boyfriend, her 1st boyfriend broke and at that I'm mad because the boy secretly go to her room and sometime she angry at me because she said that nothing happens- they just chatting each other, im i wrong to interfere with their lovelife or what I'm going to do
5 responses
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
13 Sep 08
Then I guess the thing to do is sit down and have a little chat and explain to your sibling that you do not like what is going on. If they continue with the behavior that displeases you then you will have to either live with it or make them go elsewhere to "chat".
@megaman2000ph (343)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Mmm I think I see this scene before because her first boyfriend and I have a nice chat with him, but he keeps coming back sneaking to my sister's bedroom.
@piearlsam (8)
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13 Sep 08
I could sense that you care a lot about your sister and you want what is best for her. A boy and a girl together in a private room could be tempted to be intimate physically. I just hope that your sister is aware that if she is with a boy in a room they could go into physical intimacy and have consequences. One could be pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease. You don't have to interfere, I believe it is important that you tell your sister that you care about her specially her future. Try to talk to her about the consequences of intimate physically. You could also share your concern with your parents or other family members if she thinks that your concern is not important.
@megaman2000ph (343)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
The worst fear is when someday if she could be pregnant its all be loss for her.
@SukiSmiles (1991)
• United States
13 Sep 08
I agree with fwidman. It is going to depend on your culture and your values, and her age as well. My sister is 10 years younger than I am, but she is own her own in another city and I would not interfere in her love life. But then again, she's also 27 years old.
@rainmark (4302)
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13 Sep 08
How old is your sister? If she's so young you need to advice her. And she must tell you the truth.The things that she doing is not nice for the girls to see. She must feel respect to you and not doing something not nice inside the house. specially that she let her boyfriend to her room. You must tell it to your parents so that your parents will going to talk to her. happy myloting.
@megaman2000ph (343)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
I had fight with her first boyfriend because of what happen they break up, but here comes the second I hope that it couldn't be happen soon, I think I acted my natural instincts because I act different if its happen this way.
@aize003 (225)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
well you should talk to your sister and tell her to be honest with you.. if she said that there is nothing going on between them then why should her boyfriend secretly go to her room if he has a good intention..
how old is your sister and her boyfriend?
