the one

When I first met my husband, we were just friends comparing war stories about our ex's. One day, I just looked at him and something told me that he was the one. He said he felt the same and we began our relationship. A few years into it, we hit a rocky patch and we both started doubting if we really were meant for each other. We both started having thoughts about what our lives would be like without each other and thought we would be better off. We broke up for 4 months and, let me tell you, it was the hardest thing I ever went through! I knew he was the one a couple days after we broke up because I really could not function. All the things that bothered me before were insignificant. I hated his snoring with a passion, but, once we broke up, I had a very hard time falling asleep without his snoring. So, to me, you know that person is the one if you honestly cannot imagine your life without that person right beside you.

i really don't know if there are signs or anything. i guess your feelings will tell you. maybe you will just feel it when the person you're with is the one whom you can share your life with.

well for me i always used the trail and error method. i try going out with her, and see if we had any common interests, whether we can get along well. it always a trying out as there was no definite way to tell if he/she was THE ONE. i rather be safe than sorry. so i suggest going out for at least a few months before making a decision. there is always a risk of being heart broken with every relationship.

honestly, i can't really tell if i'm with the right one already. but i guess when you can handle your life with that someone, even when there are a lot of difficulties in your relationship, then maybe you can spend your life with that person. it's hard for us to tell coz we don't actually know what our future brings.

Back to the one thing named COMMITMENT. Every person can be the one for us if we try to accept them just the way they are.. The sign that made i know that my partner is the one for me, and made me decide that he is the person i will spend my life with..is just with look his life deeply. I saw that he can really loving his God (though God is never seen, never touched) deeply, so I know that he can really loves me..however..

We both just knew. It's kind of hard to explain it. After we got together, he told me that I'd always been in the back of his mind (and the same went for me), and when we finally started dating, it just felt right.