approved or deny friend request

Yes, I would still have my ex-bf & ex-gf to be my friend in my friendster account...actually, they are a part of my friends list. You may say I'm a hypocrite but most of my ex-bf's and ex-gf are my friends up to the present. They were a part of my life and I would like to them to still be a part of my life even if we're just friends. That's how I respect and love them still even if they had hurt me in the past...ironic isn't it.

well, theres nothing wrong about it. if i am to be in your shoe, i would it.simply to have more friends in your account.^_~

For me that would depend on the relationship I currently have with the ex. If we are still friends then sure. Otherwise, doubtful. Would definitely depend on the circumstances.

LOL. Why not? For me, if you don't have any feelings anymore, and you want to be friends with many people, you should get the negative thoughts about your past experience. I had my ex lovers on my facebook account. All of them, and I didn't mind with it because I think I want to be friends with them. There's no more feeling, and I don't care anymore about with whom they are now, and what they do with who and where and when. I would definitely approve them as my friend

That's depend on after you broke up you still have good relationship as a plain friend. But if you had a worst relationship with her and bad past relationship before. I will not going to accept her/him.Specially that if you still have feelings on her/him and you are on the healing process.Maybe aftr i can recover from our broke up i will aceept it. Happy myloting.

It depends if we parted amicably or not. Hehe! Is there such a thing though? Seriously, for me it would be okay, most especially if you broker up a long time ago and you both have significant others already. My hubby has some ex-girlfriends in his Friendster and Facebook accounts. At first, I questioned these because it was the girls who invited him but their profiles show that they are married with kids already or in a relationship. One of the old girlfriends even said that if he and my hubby hadn't broken up then she wouldn't have met her Spanish boyfriend. Also for me, it's sort of a way of subtly letting your exes know that you're doing much better now than when you were together. Haha!

why would they want to? so they can stalk you on the internet after they dump you or get dumped? i dont think they would want to anyway, unless they r still interested and cant let go...then maybe it is a good thing to deny the request and move on.

Sure. Why not? As long as you're still on good terms with them, of course. Just because you're not "involved" with someone anymore doesn't mean that you can't still be friends with them. As a matter of fact, I spent most of today with an ex-girlfriend, attending an open day at a Buddhist centre.

yes, i definately would. i belong to friendster, too. in fact, i belong to about 40 different sites. now, if you agree to approve this person, you only add to your list of friends. it means nothing more by this. also, owen is great. if you friend makes a nasty message to you, just alert owen. he'll take care of it and block that person from your list. i just think that you can let bye-gones, be bye-gones. i am assuming since you are even asking this question, that the person did not do something to strongly hurt you. because then, of course, it would be a big NO !

hmmm.. yhap I will :D

i can allow it. My ex_boyfriend is my best friend now. And he is on my MSN list. he have a girlfriend and I'm single.

It depends if you are angry with each other... Happy mylotting everyone!... ;-) We triumph without glory, when we conquer without danger...