Girls,do you mind if you are heavier than your boyfriend?
By merrycherry
@merrycherry (132)
China
September 13, 2008 9:56am CST
hey, everyone. Well, recently my friends and I discussed about some details in relationships. Jessie, a friend of mine, had a boyfriend who is very thin while herself was a little bit chubby and weighs heavier than her boyfriend. Her boyfriend was very nice said he didnt even care about this weight stuff. however Jessie cant get over with it. Ive told her many times to calm down coz there is a big deal if he doesnt care. She tried a lot of times to lose weight, she found it embarrassing when they go out, but she didn work it out.
so do you mind if you are heavier than your boyfriend? How do you deal with that? do you feel depressed?
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3 responses
@tamarafireheart (15384)
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13 Sep 08
Hi merrycherry,
I don't think Jessie should worry about being heavier then her boyfriend as he he dosen't mind about her weight but if sh is unahappy the best thing is she should start a little bit of execising and strat eating helthy food in that way she will lose a bit of weight and by seeing that she will progress to losing more weight but I thing there is more than meet the eye here you have to talk to her, there is much deeper problem here.
Tamara
@merrycherry (132)
• China
14 Sep 08
yeah, i know.. I'll talk to her.. Thanks for your nice responding~~ Tamara!! Have a nice day!!
@miller23231 (873)
• United States
13 Sep 08
I think I'm a little heavier than my boyfriend, but he says I'm not. I think it's all just a matter of confidence. If you're happy with they way you look, it doesn't matter if you're heavier than him or not. If he's happy with her, then there shouldn't be any problem.
@merrycherry (132)
• China
14 Sep 08
yeah, u r right, confidence is the matter. I'll help Jessie with that. Thank you for your responding!! Happy mylotting!!
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
28 Sep 08
Well i have never been heavier than anyone i was with,so i do not know if i could handle it or not...i am on the thin side but not really skinny but thin...My daughter married a year ago & i think it botheres her because she is always complaining about her weight,it does not seem to bother her husband though.he is soooooooo in love i don't think he cares....My friend though was heavy & she always said she was fat & she could not understand why her b/f could ike her,so i think it bothered her,but she started a weight watchers diet & now she is thin,but now she complains about other things so maybe she is just an unhappy person...I think if you love someone it should not matter...
