Have you experienced this???
By anne12d
@anne12d (676)
Philippines
September 13, 2008 10:53am CST
Well, I was being ignored by my friends since Elementary/High school...
I logged in to YM, I was invited to have a conference chat. We are about 7 I think in the conference chat room...
A friend asked to go out over the weekends and she name drop my friends name who are not there and in there on the chatroom. She didn't bother to ask me. Even I'm busy with my work and I seldom join them to go out, still I'm there visible, reading all what they are typing about.. So I just kept quiet, not chatting and just reading there. I felt sad, ignored and alone during that time so I decided to go out of that conference without them knowing and they just noticed my absence after an hour.
So now I felt that I'm not part of that circle of friends...
Well, I just need their understanding because we are in different life now... And I do understand them it's just that I don't wanted to be ignored face to face...
How about you? Have you felt or experienced being ignored by anybody?
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4 responses
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
19 Jan 09
That sucks! I don't know but if that happens to me i guess i should forget about them then move on with my life. If they come looking for me then that's their call but i sure don't want to do with any of their activities anymore. I've been to YM conferences and i think it's very small place to ignore 1 person especially if she belongs if she's invited to join. Could it be that it's a plot to embarrass you? Were you close before? Can you remember something you've done which might have hurt her?
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
hi anne! 
i've never experienced being ignored in a voice conference at YM by friends but i have experienced being ignored by my crush. .
i've never experienced being ignored in a voice conference at YM by friends but i have experienced being ignored by my crush. .@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
That's terrible... Hmmm... You shouldn't be treated that way even if he is your crush... It's only a crush and you are not begging him to fall for you or love you right?! Just a respect is enough...
We went out yesterday, but a few friends came by but it was fun... We really had a great time together.. but I haven't spoke to others...
Thanks for responding!!!
Have a nice day!!!
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
21 Sep 08
i'm not begging him for anything. i even try to avoid seeing him. although deep inside i want him to pay attention to me. but i wouldn't tell him that. never. its never in my characteristic to ask for attention.
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
I sometimes do, but the thing is you would be ignored if you let them ignore you, with life now that everything is happening so fast and everyone has the life of their own, nobody cares anymore, and the only way to solicit care is to let them you are there. talk, speak,,dance, do what ever you have to do to get the attention.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
10 Oct 08
Probably most of us have experienced being ignored at one time or another. I know I have at times. It really hurts. Thankfully it doesn't happen too often. Though I do think it toughens our character, and makes us realize that we don't need those kind of people. There are others that will appreciate what we are and the contribution we can make. So search out better "friends." There is a whole world out there and there are all kinds of people. Some good, some very good, some bad and some terrible. And so the world turns!
