Tips on keeping my husband

@Hope32 (119)
United States
September 13, 2008 12:37pm CST
A friend of my is having some problems keeping her husband from cheating on her. He comes home at 1am in the morning when he gets of from work at 5pm. She answered his cell phone the other day and a woman ask to speak to him. I tried to tell her to spice up their love making. Have any ideas on how she could do that?
3 responses
@pam210 (344)
• United States
13 Sep 08
My question is why would she want to keep him? In my opinion you can't try to keep someone with you. Why is he cheating on her and not just telling her that he is unhappy and wants to leave. Sounds like he is taking advantage on both ends. He has someone else but then probably comes back to a good wife who takes care of the house and takes care of him. I would confront him with it and decide to let him go or go herself. Don't be used and taken advantage of, stand up for yourself you deserve better.
@Hope32 (119)
• United States
13 Sep 08
You are right she is a good wife. She cooks, cleans and take care of the kids. She can do better. He is taking advantage, he having his cake and eating too. The only thing he good for is that he does take care of all the bills but he does not give her any money to spend on her self.
• Malaysia
28 Sep 08
I know in some country, the lady or girl is still having no rights to express their feeling and willingness. And this cause unfair and lots of time, they force to accept the situation and cant do anything. Really sad to know that. But if possible, do express that out and start another new life. Life is so short and everyone deserved new and good life.
@Natara (169)
• Canada
16 Sep 08
Lol? She shouldn't have to try to convince him not to cheat. Tell her to get divorced- he obviously doesn't love her, or he is just messed up.