Whats the most pain moment you ever suffer in life????

@snpyvin (1518)
Malaysia
September 13, 2008 8:49pm CST
hi everyone. the most pain moment i ever suffer in my life was after an operation on my right knee due to ligament torn. It wasn't that pain after the first operation and slowly i try to train back my leg muscle and waited for almost 9 month to recover that after that you got a news saying that it wasn't done so well so i have to undergoing second operation, i was like "Owch" in my heart. I have to repeat the same process just one more time. I can't imagine the pain i have to pass again, the difficulties to move around and so on. The hardest part is i can't get back to my sport for 9 more months. Hell lot time wasted here, i am just that unlucky. How about you?? Heart break can also be a pain moment doesn't mean only operation.. Other thing too, mind to share??
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16 responses
• United States
14 Sep 08
That's a shame about the second operation, my condolences. The most physical pain I've ever been in was less than a year ago. I was on the phone with the doctor (ironically), talking about one of my kids, I think, when suddenly I got this very sharp stabbing pain in my back. I literally couldn't breathe, I was crying, screaming, writhing on the floor - it's the worst thing that I've ever been through, and I've been through childbirth...TWICE. It must have lasted for about half an hour. I literally thought I was about to die on my floor. The most emotional pain I've ever been in was when I was 15 years old, and I fell in love with my best friend's boyfriend. I didn't want to hurt her, not for the world, and I felt like such a terrible person, like I was betraying her, even though I didn't mean for it to happen. And my heart was torn in two, because I didn't want to take him from her, but I didn't see how I could live without him for myself. Nothing hurts like knowing the only way to not cause someone you love pain is to go through the pain yourself, or for you to be happy, your loved one will have to suffer. Two of the most miserable months of my entire life.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
14 Sep 08
Thanks for the condolences. You do have a big courage to give birth twice, if for me i would think twice after the first pain. Hope that you child will appreciate it and love you in future.Ya i agree with you statement that one part should be sacrifice for the others to be happy.By the way, is that boyfriend of your best friend with you and marry you till today? if that so maybe its worth as you just want to get the person you love although is your best friend boyfriends as that how life was sometimes cause your love feeling come naturally not that you wanted it. Anyway thanks for the response over here.. happy mylotting!!!!!!
• United States
14 Sep 08
Yes, actually, I did end up marrying him! My best friend was one of my bridesmaids, actually, and I was her matron of honor when she got married. We're still quite close. Once she had some time, she realized I never meant to hurt her and I didn't set out to take him from her, and that their relationship wasn't good anyway. It really did work out for the best, thankfully.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
14 Sep 08
Its good to hear that, it just takes time for you friend happy that you both get back together as friend again.Happy mylotting!!!!!!!
• India
14 Sep 08
it was when i met with an accident 7 years back and fractured my leg. was in the hospital for a week and then bed rest for 3 months. it was bad.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
Wow..its a long time on bed. I have been in hospital for 1 week and i pray hard to get back home but then you have to rest 3 month on bed i can't imagine that.Fell sorry for making you flash back those moment. hope you have a nice day and happy mylotting!!!!!!
• Brazil
27 Sep 08
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@Nimbus91 (576)
• United States
15 Sep 08
hmm i havn't had much physical pain in my life althought i've played alot of soccer matches in my life - no broken bones or anything.. just some scratches. But i do feel sorry for other ppl who play football and broke their leg.. it happens i supposed
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
Most of people do broke their leg or have torn their ligamen after playing soccer or futsal. Its good to hear that you are still doing fine. Hope that you wouldn't come across this one day. happy mylotting!!!!!!!!
@aj2006 (1534)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
For me its the pain of giving birth, I delivered my two kids in a normal delivery setting and it is really very painful but its worth the pain because I have two cute and smart kids now..have a great day to you.. keep on posting in myLot!.. :)
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
Ya happy that your kids are cute and smart now. I agree thats its worth hope that your kids appreciate and love you so much in future. Happy mylotting!!!!! and thanks for responding here.
@snowy22315 (180840)
• United States
15 Sep 08
psychical probably childbirth, but when I was 10 I rolled off the couch and hit my shin on a glass dish. I was screaming it hurt so bad. emotional my son probably about 15 years later. Getting divorced was no picnic either.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
Looks like your life is turning upside down. Hope that everything is fine now and may god be with you. Thanks for response over here and happy mylotting!!!!
@jaysonjpa (151)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
I also experience that too, when I was in elementary school we always playing hide and seek. One time I was hiding above the tree when I slip and fall down the tree. My left hand was fractured and the bone almost get out of my skin. Everyday I suffered too much pain especially when a healer(manghihilot) will touch my left hand. It was last tell 3weeks before my mother decided to consult it with the doctor cause there are no improvement at all.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
You mean that you fall and doesn't go for operation left it there until your mum finally decided to consult it with a doctor after 3 weeks???
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
14 Sep 08
From a physical standpoint I'd have to say my c-section. Not the operation itself. But during recovery I blew up like a blowfish. I mean from head to toe. You couldn't even tell how many toes I had. Yes I was that swollen.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
I hope that you recover by now. I agree most of us feel more pain and suffer after the operation even myself. Thanks for taking part here and happy mylotting!!!!!!!
@gemini_rose (16264)
14 Sep 08
That would have to be after I had been sterilised. I remember them waking me up after it had been done and for one minute I was fine, then this pain ripped through me like I had never ever felt in my life. Not even in labour did I feel pain like this, I ended up having to have morphine, and they gave me that much of it that it knocked me out for over 12 hours! I had my operation at 9 am and was supposed to be home by lunch time, I did not get out of hospital until 10pm and only because I insisted I wanted to go, went straight home and slept until dinnertime next day! Good stuff morphine is.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
Morphine sure a good stuff as pain killer but it do have alot side effect that can harm us as well. I take morphine before for my pain but it was in a small amount. I hope that we both don't need it in future lols. Happy mylotting and thanks for responding here.
@rajueie (204)
• India
14 Sep 08
most paingul moment in my life is ........ when i was of 12 years old....we went to thirupathi(piligrimage center).....there we were climbing the hill by foot..........my sister walked fastly and we were unable to catch her speed.....we thought that she will stop herself after sometime...but she didnt.....and we were searching for my sister.....in the middle of that hill there were 2 routes to go up.....but only one route is working....and the other is under construction.......we thought that she might had gone into that route.....we juz prayed to god and we had given an announcement for my sister.....and atlast we got her ........she is sitting on a rock and she said thaat she was waiting for us..........that was a painful moment in my life......
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
Oh you thought that you was going to loss her but you wasn't thanks god for that. Hope that she is doing well now. Thanks for responding here and happy mylotting!!!!!!!
• India
14 Sep 08
well are you asking about physical pain or mental pain??
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
Any pain it will do..
@esphyka (158)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
emotional stress due to love.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
Most people have this pain too. It just take times to heal. Hope you have a nice and happy day ahead happy mylotting!!!!!!!!
• United States
14 Sep 08
well when i was only eight i lost a finger in a washing machine accident. but i lived through it. i grew up with the kind of esteem that only one would have as a result of such incident. but it made me a better person. i care what happens to people, i hope your pain will subside.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
I feel sorry about it. Don't feel bad losing one finger ok. You must have alot of courage to live up with it. I hope that you are fine and happy in everything you do. Happy mylotting!!!! ^_^
@nonull (13)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
when i join a fraternity..
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
I don't know why you will have to join fraternity but i hope that it has over by now. happy mylotting!!!!!
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
i had this worst pain ever in my life...emotionally... physically b'coz of VA, its a long story to say but i preffered to keep it private to people whom i dont personally know. tnx
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 08
Hehe its ok for me if you don't wanna share i but i sincerely hope that your pain recover by now. By the way mind to tell what is VA?? Thanks for response here and happy mylotting!!!!!
@hiddenwing (3719)
• China
14 Sep 08
Ooh, I don't even wanna mention it. It was sad! Have a great day!
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
14 Sep 08
Lols. Ok about that ,hope you are ok with it already. Thanks for responding.
• United States
14 Sep 08
it would def. have to be the birth of my last child. he was a huge baby!!! soooo painful almost makes me not want anymore! haha hope that helped
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
14 Sep 08
Lols. Hope you getting better now. Thanks for responding here. Happy mylotting!!!!!