Confessing to your closest friend.
By micahbrul
@micahbrul (307)
Philippines
September 14, 2008 5:11am CST
Are you going to tell to your closest friend about something that you know she'll get mad to? That you and the past with her were involved.
Secrets that you've shared, a promised that will never be broke and just an instant you'd broken. A philosophy that you've agreed to and now were all in wrong thoughts. A memory that you both treasured and now fading a way just because of a mistake you've done that shouldn't supposed to happen. Knowing in yourself that it was just happened for a reason, a reason that people sees very wrong.
Knowing her that she's respecting you all through the years that passed. That this secrets may cause her to despise you, may bitter you that much.
You want to tell her because you see that she's happy now and you may think that she'll forgive you in an instant and just never mind you because of the joy she's having right now.
Considering that this took part very important to her and once told you and made you promise that you'll never get involve to it, ever.
How would you tell her the most horror part of her life that you, her best friend deceived her? Or are you just going to keep it for the rest of your life?
3 responses
@chengbeb (285)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
Being honest hurts but it can also give you a peaceful life. If it will ever happen to me I would be honest to her and tell her the truth because I trust her and love her. If in any case it becomes a negative thing in our relationship as friends and would cause her to despise me I'll accept that because I brought that unto myself. In a friendship or any type of relationship we must be honest to each other so that trust will always be there. And if it doesn't happen...if it doesn't end the way positively or the way you thought it would end...accept it, respect whatever decision she makes and just love her from a distance.
@micahbrul (307)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
chengbeb,
Weow.. well, you have a point in there. It was my fault really. Maybe I just make it easier by taking it slow to tell her. You know a bit by bit. Hehehe.. What do you think?
I don't want to loose our friendship.
@chengbeb (285)
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
You can't really tell if your gonna lose your friendship or not. It really depends on how she's gonna take it. It's hard to be honest...you might lose your friendship in the process. It's really up to you and how you're gonna take it if she decides that she doesn't want to be your friend anymore. Like I mentioned respect whatever decision she makes and just love and support her from a distance.
@micahbrul (307)
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
Yeah, you have a good point. I just need to accept things. Things that I knew I have to do even this will end up our friendship. She maybe accept the fact that I feel sorry about it when times go by. Everything will be heal in time.
Or maybe she will not get mad because it was pass already. Right? oh.. I was just really scared to open things up to her.
@creationhub (3066)
• Malaysia
14 Sep 08
People say, confession is good for the soul. I do agree except we need to be very careful who we confide in. Our best friend may turn out someone who would stab us in the back. One can never tell. People are not what they are supposed to be. We need to be able to judge others properly.
@micahbrul (307)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
yeah... it was very hard for me to carry this. Guilt always in me whenever we're together talking about it. Sometimes I rather not to come with her and just make excuses. You know, I can't stand talking with her just to lie. I knew, nobody wants to lie, right?
@micahbrul (307)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
well i'm thinking the same way.. But my guilt always coming whenever i'm with her! weow!
