Why do guys always court only the cute girls?
By phyrethyme
@phyrethyme (1267)
Philippines
September 14, 2008 6:19am CST
It's always like that, right? Guys always go for the looks. Hm.. I don't know any guy who courted a girl who isn't good looking.
So obviously, what's outside is always a factor.. Hm. So there.
LOL. Random question, I know. XD Same goes for us girls. We choose the guys who are good-looking.
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6 responses
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
6 Jun 09
What you meant to say was ALL the SHALLOW GUYS always go for the looks right. Because I know that you're intelligent to know that there are some men out there who could care less about what you look like and who are more interested in what you like and what your personality is like. All females have beauty, it may be unconscious or even something not readily visible but a man who is worth the title should be interested in your substance and who you are not how good you look on his arm. Besides it is for the women to sample and to choose which man she will grace with her affections not for men to hunt through the herd fot the weak and pathetic "pretty girls" with the empty heads.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
Well, I think it has something to do with the following reasons:
1. Guys tend to want cute girls because they want a prize catch, they wouldn't want someone ordinary.
2. Cute girls have more concern for their health, beauty and looks, thus making them appear more healthy and more charming than others. (You wouldn't want to have a girl who's smelling wrong).
3. Regardless the attitude, you'd first see the face or the 'looks'. That's a normal thing, you can't go past the 'look'. If you think you being 'good' will mark higher, think again.
4. Cute girls tend to have better genes.
Hey, but don't fret. It doesn't mean that cute girls rule the world. The earlier the girls become overly concerned about her looks, the earlier they do lose it. I say it's true. In my senior years there were a lot of cute girls having the guys all for themselves, but when I reached college, their beauty wasn't as appealing and most of them didn't shine out anymore.
Remember that we are all like flowers. We all have our 'budding moments' and our 'blooming moments'. Nobody after all is ugly. Don't ever believe that you are ugly because the more you think about it, the more REAL it becomes. Always think that you are GORGEOUS and I assure you it would shine out.
So, don't worry about how others look 'prettier' than you. Be thankful that they are because it's a way for you to find the right guy faster. Because the temporary chick already filtered the bad ones for you. :)
There you go, just be as neat as you can be. Try to smile more. Plus, remember that guys always dig girls who aren't drooling over them. They want mystery and a little bit of ignoring so as to cultivate their curiosity of you. Don't spill your beans by flirting ~ those are the jobs for the temporary chicks.
=)
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
I like your answers. :) Thanks for the reply! Don't worry. I am not fretting. It's just something random that I am curious about. I like the idea that the temporary girls weed out the bad boys. Hehe. I am in a relationship right now anyway. And happy. :) He's the only one I flirt with. He enjoys it anyway. Hahaha! Thanks again. XD
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@king4aday (680)
• Philippines
5 Apr 09
Nice response. I do agree with you that some guys does not want it easy. We want to be challange. It's true that guys initially go for the looks. Any gut who does not admit it is a hypocrite. I don't think guys think about genes that much though. My wife suffers from palpitation and gastric ulcer. Before we got married it cross my mind that the possibilty of my children inheriting the same illness is high. But I still when through with it because she is everything that I want and she is the person that I am looking for. Enough with the mush. Anyway I prefer less make up. Simple is better. Those who wear make up are most likely not that attractive without them. Natural Beauty is better
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@jimnemesis (21)
• Singapore
23 May 09
for guys, it's usually the physical attraction first... rather than any emotional attachment. lucky for me, i've got a beautiful wife.
for an "uncute" girl, i guess what she could do is befriend a guy that she likes first. once you become close friends, it's very likely that the guy would look past the physical.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
We interact with everything initially by our sense of sight which grants that immediate impressions of things around us. We can assume that something is either rough or smooth just by looking at things and that kind'a goes along with how we have impressions on individuals who are able to carry themselves in a manner which are socially acceptable.
Not that everyone is conscious with how they appear towards other people but, being appreciated isn't something that a person moves away from.. so be it in small gestures or in a grand scale, every person more or less are concerned on how they appear.
Being that as it may, courting on the other hand involves getting to know the person.. so even if someone is very attractive in their appearance, if their personality just simply contrasts with how pleasing they look, it might or might not work out.
Then again, not everyone always courts with their eyes..
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
True. You're right. Thanks for the reply. But then, those people who don't court with their eyes are very few. :)
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@mbowane (1)
• South Africa
5 Apr 09
The taste of the pudding is in the eating!!
Just an opening line.
Guys would appreciate and admire you if you are beautiful. thats true.
It is because people (in general - I hope, this is a blanket statement.
When people buy clothes, they look for the most beautiful. So human beings like beautiful; things, shoes, trousers etc.
This does not mean that the ugly ones stay single?
Some girls are beautiful but are not good for lovers beacuse they have got a chain of lovers. This then disqualifies them. Sometimes they like money and would like to sell "it". Or they are just a mess when it comes to dating, so they will be left single because of a lot of reasons.
The opposite is also true that ugly girls get married. They have in a nice manner, know how to love single guys. They would be extra nice in a relationship.
So, it goes both sides. All people will get a lover if given the chance. Someone is bound to love what looks like ugly to you... This is true life.
All p[eople were made to be happy one way or the other.
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
30 May 09
well i dont relaly know about that maybe because of that unusual beauty they see on a lady they tend to court her/them. but some guys are also not like that. but seldom do we can really experience guys like that, right?! like us too, we tend to find a more cutie guy and hopefully we could end up having a handsome guy as our love one. lol! thanks friend...jhelai