why does love hurt so much?

United States
September 14, 2008 10:59am CST
i have been in love and i have found that it has many disappointments so much so i have vowed to guard my heart against being hurt again. why does it hurt so much when you love someone?
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• United States
12 Jun 09
I can relate to that story. I had a girlfriend back in the Philippines, very gorgeous and beautiful, we had a year relationship being together there, I came back to California, told her I would be back to vow to marry her and such. Then found out, she slept with multiple guys, she got pregnant, doesn't know who the father is and now she's stuck with her child. Love hurts, but that doesn't stop a person from living and moving on. That doesn't stop a person from being happy again, getting their life back on track and finding someone to love again. Love will always be there, if love hurts it is the person that decided to get out of the love to the person they were with. Don't give up on your hopes.
@sdboy619 (82)
• United States
12 Jun 09
Just earlier I posted a topic called falling out of love. I'm married so being in love or married is an endurance that goes day by day. I think love hurts if like your spouse cheated and like left you. I'd be in pain if that happen to me. I wouldn't go as far though to hurt the person I love. My definition of love hurts if bad relationships happen like everyday.
@rina312 (296)
14 Sep 08
Hi there. I'm joining your club. Love hurts, painful than any pain there is. I wish I could know why too.
@meirong (88)
• China
6 Dec 08
Because you are in love.When wo love somebody we expect the same love from the person we love.Of course most of the time we are happy because of love.But sometime when the person you love doesn't do what you are expecting you will feel hurt.