who runs things?

@jhl930 (3601)
United States
September 14, 2008 6:00pm CST
as we all know in most relationships its not exactly 5050 usually someone gets what they want more than the other and in my relationship its usually her because i don't feel like fighting and when she gets upset i just give her her way where we don't have to get into it really...so i was just wondering about all of you, in your relationship who would you say runs things more so than the other...do you get your way more or does the other person in your life get their way more... thanks for taking the time out of your day to read and review my discussion and maybe answering my discussion, i hope that you all had a great weekend and i hope that your night and the rest of the week this week is a great week for you, thanks again for taking the time!
2 responses
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
I think overall I, the husband, run things. We (my wife and I) talk about things that need real decisions, and I decide which is best for us. That doesn't mean that I always have my way. It's just that when we discuss things, I listen to her thoughts and decide from there. If she has provided a better option, esp. with things that I'm totally clueless, then I decide that we should do that.
• United States
15 Sep 08
I would have to say i run things more than he does. Not that im bossy i just like things my way or no way sometimes it a 50/50 deal but not always. He usually wont argue with me he just normally does it when i ask but i do have to ask more than once LOL. Some guys just never understand.