Is it possible tobe with someone but love someone else?

yes i too think that it is possible if u can manage with two u can do that but it is very difficult to manage 2 at a time before marriage there is no problem in doing this after marriage it is very difficult to manage 2 at a time even som guys are doing that

yes. it is possible. it has been possible. i have seen it practically in my own case of my husband. we ae married for 12 years with one son of 11 years. and never once was my husband intimate with me till date. ours was a love marriage. love for 10 years. i love him tooooooooooo much. and thought that he also loves me quually on par with me. but recently i discovered that he is living committed to me cos i am loving / committed to him. whereas he had loved or involved with someone else from time to time. till date in allthese 12 years he has had relation with 5 diff. girls. and his final/current girlfriend says that to me. so it is very uch possible to stay and utilise someone and love and enjoy some other.

Yes I believe it is and we see it happening a lot around us.But as you pointed out, relationship is so complicated, the same way with people's feelings and their moral and ethical values. People enter into relationships with different intentions and purposes. Love maybe in the picture and maybe not but for a meaningful and lasting relationship to exist, love must be present. And love is not just an emotional feeling but an action of the will. A decision to care for a person no matter what.