do you celebrate anniversaries with your partner?
By pinks17
@pinks17 (2192)
Philippines
September 15, 2008 4:02am CST
[i][b]We only have two more days and my boyfriend and I will celebrate our 2nd year anniversary as live-in partners.I have plans long time ago but now that we are in a tight budget and all...I decide to probably cook dinner for him and just celebrate it at home.
Do I expect a gift?Of course "yes" but sad to say I know how much he received last payday and again we are on a tight budget so I guess I'll just wait for next year....I already bought a gift for him.Since I am already guessing that we can't have dinner at a fancy restaurant...do you think McDonald's delivery would be fine?...A simple dinner will be nice.
Do you still celebrate your anniversary?[/b][/i]
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@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
Hi pinks, yes my fiance and I have do celebrate our anniversary every year. We make it a point to do something special or go to a place that we haven't been to before. We also celebrate our "monthsaries" and we do that by eating outside or doing something simple. My fiance and I are both hopeless romantics that's why we both have the same outlook in love and life. Haha. We've been together for four years and a half years... and by December of next year, we'll be making a different celebration.. our marriage.
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@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
We also celebrate "monthsaries" and we just eat at fast food or treat ourselves at yellowcab or at chef d'angelo.Well sis it depends on the budget.we just make it a point that if it's our monthsary we are at the mall....eating...we love to eat.As a matter of fact we are eating dinner right now and he cooked spicy buttered prawns...OMG girl...it's so delicious.knowing that he was just learning how to cook.I am gaining weight already.And I used to be the best cook here at home,now he admit it...men are really a good chefs.
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@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Wow... that must have been a delicious dinner sis... Prawns.. nyum nyum. Can I drool as well? hahaha! Well see? You were able to celebrate your special day in your own special way. Haha.. Tomorrow is our monthsary as well and I have no idea what he's up to. I'll just keep you posted. Haha. Good luck to me.
@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
I just read your post at the bottom sis.. 17 as well huh? So I guess we'll both be celebrating tomorrow huh?
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
2 Oct 08
of course, I'll forget our monthsary but not our anniversary. that is so special that we need to celebrate. a fab celebrations isn't important. what's important is we're together.
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@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
uuhh.. a simple but sweet celebration.
yep. it's the thought that counts.
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@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
4 Oct 08
well just celebrated our 2nd year anniversary at home.I just prepared a dinner for him.It was but my boyfriend's sad bec.he was not able to save money for our date.Well he liked the polo shirt I gave him and he surprised me with a 1.5L of Coke and a local chocolate he got from the training when he answered the question of the trainor.lol.it's the thought that counts.
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@cybersoft01 (1284)
• India
16 Sep 08
Yes, we do celebrate our marriage anniversary. In fact, we look forward to it months before it is. We go out, have dinner, watch movies and paint to town red.
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@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Wow that's great.Aside from celebrating our anniversary we also celebrate it monthly and we just eat out but tomorrow will be our 2nd year anniversary and just a simple dinner will be fine as long as we are together and we will have our vows again and promises on our special day.
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@rainmark (4302)
•
15 Sep 08
Last August was our first wedding aniversary.we celebrated it and it was nice because my in laws was here. They gave me a wedding anniversary card.My husband surprised me with the silver necklace and pink cross pendant. I really like it coz it so very cute. Shame i don't have any material gift to him i only gave him a anniversary card. So maybe on xmas i'll going to give him a two presents, for our last anniversary and for xmas. lolz :))
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@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
ohhh congratulations!!!we too do celebrate anniversary, even monthsary, and exchange gifts for each other if we have extra budget for it, we have just this dinner or a lunch together and that would be great, sometime me and my boyfriend go out and watch a movie. Hope you enjoy the big day!!!
happy mylotting
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@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
I will...hopefully.I am just sad bec. I couldn't give him a very special gift.But I bought him a polo shirt just a simple gift.We've actually planned long time ago that we will celebrate our anniversary out of town but with the tight budget..McDonald's delivery will do.
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
We do but we just rather stay home celebrate it simple and hug the whole day hahaha! As long that love is in the air,it will still be that special. I'll cook her favorite food,music that reminds us were we started and until now,and will dance without lights on,and with a simple chocolate in my pocket to give her. I think what is important is the thought of celebrating it. Any way their still a lot of anniversaries thAt we will spend together,and to treasure it a lifetime. Have a nice evening!God bless!
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@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
[i][b]That's sweet n30wing.
We just had our dinner and he was the one who prepared our dinner.He cooked butter prawns with oyster sauce.It's really delicious.Now I agree to some men..some of my male friends told me that men are good chefs.My boyfriend just started learning how to cook and so far..he improved a lot.Even if I am allergic to seafoods OMG I can't help but eat a lot of it tonight.
Two days from now we will celebrate our anniversary and I will be one to surprise him with a delicious dinner.Good for me that I arrive home 2 hours earlier than him.SO i still have time to prepare.Thanks for the reply.[/b][/i]
@chengbeb (285)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
You might think it's a bit over the top but my boyfriend and I celebrate Monthsary and Anniversary...we just love each other. But it doesn't really mean that we have to give each other gifts all the time we're actually contented on just spending the day together sitting side by side...watching the sunset.
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@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
WE also celebrate our monthsaries.That's why I have the number "17" beside my name bec. every 17th of the month we celebrate our monthsary and our 2nd year is nearing and I am so excited.A simple dinner will do.We will celebrate our 2nd year anniversary with our cats.
@sunnywu (10)
• China
15 Sep 08
i want to say something even though i'm a new English learner.i think it was a special day. i'm not good at cooking in fact but my dear and i cooked our favorite dish that day---boiled with tomatos,beef,beans, and our love. i don't know how to express its name. haha. we had spent a sweet day, there were no gift and flowers, but it was unforgetable.
@Anchopy (1453)
• Paraguay
15 Sep 08
I do celebrate anniversaries.. My girlfriend and I always celebrate our years and months together, in fact, today is my 2 years and 5 months anniversary with my girlfiend.. so, tonight we'll have a party!
@nlcapricorn (1114)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
We are 3 years and a half with my boyfriend now. Yes we always celebrate our anniversary. I dont cook because i dont know how to cook too bad. If i will try i might get bad comment to him instead of happy anniversary we will be quarreling haha.. So every anniversary we had we will just go to the restaurant and eat happily there. After then we will watch movie in the cinema. We both are always saving for that special day we had.
@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Too bad we don't have any savings for our anniversary.WE were actually joking that we will just call McDonald's and have food delivered here in our house.But also celebrate our monthsaries so it's alright.The only sad part is that I was expecting a different celebration and something special on our anniversary but I guess we will just have a simple dinner and be intimate to each other.
@nlcapricorn (1114)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Yes. Its doesnt matter anyway as long as you are together on that special day you had. Cherish it so much and make it a memorable one.
@rakittera (802)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
Yes, we do celebrate our anniversary every year. But it doesn't have to be expensive or anything. We just go out have some dinner and do something special like watch a concert or movie. But since we had our daughter, we were not able to celebrate this year, not the way we wanted to at least. As for the gifts, we decided not to give any this year because we had other priorities. Baby's need first.
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@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
Girl it's okay if you seldom celebrate outside.We can actually be creative.WE can have it home.I guess two days from now..I have to prepare what food to serve for dinner..I don't need to be sad bec.we can still make it special at home.I just regret it that I wasn't able to save for our anniversary.With the tight budget nowadays we have to set our priorities and that where my boyfriend is good at with regard to saving and setting priorities where we should spend our money.
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
belated happy anniversary to you and your guy!
My boyfriend and i celebrated our first year anniversary last October 1.Good thing it was a holiday so we were able to spent the whole day together.We went out and ate at pizza hut.Though we had my youngest brother with us because i need to accompany him somewhere(talk about multi-tasking..lol).We then went to my parents house and just took the day off and rest together.The rest of the day was
spent with my 1-year old cute niece that i had to look afer.We just pretended to be my niece's mom and dad and just practically enjoyed the day.
Anniversaries are occasions that we should not forget.It should be always kept in our hearts.
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@jfilips (261)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I wish I had a partner right now =(. But since I am such a busy person I can't. Also because I haven't found someone, and the last person I met and wanted to have a serious relationship with, just stopped talking to me so...yeah left me heartbroken _.
Anyways, life goes on and I am happy you are one of those lucky couples that actually enjoy being together and go out. Even if it's something simple, make it special. Make it feel special yourselves; you two being together, thats already something special =). Just think positive and be optimistic xD!
@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
[i][b]You are right jfilips.
Don't despair girl.Life has to really go on and if the relationship is not meant to be then there's nothing we can do about.Just enjoy the single life and soon God will bless someone who deserves your attention and love.[/b][/i]
@allurejan (197)
• United States
15 Sep 08
I like celebration. Even if it is just a simple occasion. My husband and I celebrate our engagement anniversary and monthsaries. Actually, we just celebrated our 5th wedding monthsary Sep. 12.
@geekyjock (371)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
Yes actually we'll be celebrating our third year this September 22. And I'm kinda excited and anxious on how to surprise her or just simply make her feel extra happy on that day. I'm planning to have a dinner date with her at an Italian restaurant we went on our first anniversary. We missed the place and we haven't been back since our first anniversary. So anyway goodluck to both of us. And I'm planning to give her a lomo camera as a gift. Actually It's a cmeha 35 Russina lomo. Hope she will like it and I'm also planning to give her three dozens of assorted roses. Anyways I think I will spend atleast $100 on that day. Ouch! But I'm sure it will be a great day for both of us.
@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Oh gosh that's a lot.Don't mind the price geekyjock...just imagine the smile on your girlfriends face when she receives all your gifts.She will be delighted I guarantee you that.Goodluck to both of us.We will celebrate our anniversary tomorrow.A simple dinner will do for me.
@Sarah1108 (310)
• United States
15 Sep 08
Yes! we celebrate the day we met! our anniversary is coming up in just a few more weeks. it will be our one year together. we are already engaged and we will clebrate that day too. We wont be doing anything big only because we are having to live 5 hours away from eachother. i hope to visit him on my birthday in nov. i think anniversaries are very important. my parents will be celebrating 31 years married on Oct 1st.
@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
[i][b]Wow that's a long year of marriage.HOw I wish my boyfriend and I will last that long..
Wow how sweet..you are already engaged.We don't talk about that though.but it's fine.I just want to make each day a special day for us and if we are meant to be with each other for the rest of our lives wow that would be great.
Goodluck to you and your boyfriend too.May we have a happy and lasting relationship.[/b][/i]
@jennyw022605 (38)
• United States
16 Sep 08
My Huddy and I will celebrate our 4th wedding anniversary in Feb and we are on a tight budget also but we are going to Las Vages for a few days and I don't know what I will get him yet.
@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
[i][b]Well at least you will not celebrate it at home.The thought of going out to a different place is already a great gesture from your boyfriend at least out from the normal location.
How about giving yourself as a gift for him? an intense and very intimate moment with him will be good though.[/b][/i]
@resurrection04 (271)
•
16 Sep 08
hmm..yeah me 2..i want to celebrate our anniversary..but then im so faraway from her..maybe when i get back to my home..maybe we can celebrate it..
@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
[i][b]That's life resurrection04.
Sometimes when we love someone we have to sacrifice.That's another reason why my boyfriend and I stay together and rented an apartment bec. we don't want to be apart from each other.
But don't worry darling.As long as you remain faithful to your partner and give your partner a regular call that will suffice already.It's how you remember your partner.[/b][/i]