I am sweet on a girl, but she seems not interested in me,what should I do?
By yanny2008
@yanny2008 (56)
China
7 responses
@yadav8797 (1211)
• India
26 Sep 08
its happy to hear that you are in love with someone my friend.its a greatest thing on the earth.if you really love somebody then you will definitely get your love.you don't feel shy my friend.but friend in love purposeful is requirement.otherwise, you may lost your love or if she love with some other.you can try your best to get your love either by hook or by crook.ok friend.
happy mylotting.
@mushylauff (81)
• Belgium
16 Sep 08
i think you should tell her.. coz you know being sweet is not enough.
That girl may think that you're just doing your sweet thingy in order to be friends with her.
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
15 Sep 08
You CANNOT force her to love you back. You should try & become her best friend so she can get to know you & learn to love you. Just try & be there for her whenever she needs a friend. And step back when she needs to be alone. It is NOT an easy path. However, if you truly love her, you will be willing to do what you need to do. Since you say you love her, I assume you know her pretty well. You also need to understand that she may never love you & be prepared for that if it happens. If you try & force your love on her, she will shut you out completely. So tread lightly!!!
@chaijudin (506)
• Indonesia
15 Sep 08
dude! , there is so many way to figure your love,
maybe she dosen,t match with sweet guy , so be a macho guy , or be a smart guy , or be a funny guy , etc.
but my advice is be yourself don,t you , don,t try to liar her , don,t "sell" your self , don,t be a fool, even love is blind but don,t make yourself blind
be nature dude! , slow but sure (but not to slow , not to fast)
Yanny? are you a girl ? sorry ur lesbian?
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
just give her time to know you better..show to her that you have good intentions and do you best to make her fall in love with you..it takes time but be patient and reap the rewards afterwards..it will worth the wait..(",)
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
well maybe she wants both of you to be as friends and nothing more than that. just continue being friends with her who knows.
@anurag440044 (414)
• India
15 Sep 08
dude. well what you need to do is first get to know that girl very well. get to know her character. then strike a conversation with her whenver possible and in this process try to take her best friends place in her life. i know this will take a lot of time {atleas it took me 10 mnths in this process}. but if you really love her and really want her, time shouldnt matter to you and you should not lose your control over things. just stay calmn and patient, it will take time as you just cant force a person to love you back. what i would suggest you my friend is just stay in touch with her. through conversations, try n take her phone number. try and talk to her on her likings, hobbies, studies any subject / topic you can. just be sweet to her, help her in every possible way in everything. iam sure she will reciprocate to you. then she will start giving you signals back that if shes started liking you or not. and one more thing, if she has a friend who is her friend i.e best friend, try and get close to her and first win that girls trust believe me shes the one who will help you a lot in your quest.
good lucky.. n lemme know what happens.