would you make them choose between the other person or you?

@aize003 (225)
Philippines
September 15, 2008 9:17am CST
you're in a relationship and you've been together quite so long then one day you found out that you're not the only one in his/her life what will you do?would you make him/her choose between the two of you or you're letting him/her go?
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@rkrish (3003)
• India
15 Sep 08
I really feel bad about my feeling that i am alone and its the time for me to get decision of her about whom she is going to be further..but if i need a true relationship if she is not ok with single then bye bye...if i am not true then i feel its ok to continue
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
16 Sep 08
Well the first thing I would do is kick myself for being so stupid and then walk away. As far as I am concerned they could have each other! I most definitely would not fight to keep my relationship or push for a choice to be made because if there was respect for me in the first place then this never would have happened. There is no point trying to keep a relationship with no respect alive under any circumstances.
@mizzk1 (56)
• United States
15 Sep 08
Well me im the type of gurl where I don't want a guy to have to choose between me and someone else. So i would just let him go and be with her. Because I don't want to feel like that, like I have to wait until he decides who he really wants to be with and where his heart is. Its kinda like you saving yourself from getting ur heartbroken but at the same type u still gettin ur heart broken if he chooses her. But then it also depends on how I feel about the person also. If what yall have is real love then he/she will come back. Now if its not then you just out of luck just move on. Easier said then done right? I would just let him go because if he really loves or cares about like he/she say they do then you really have nothing to worry about.
• Indonesia
15 Sep 08
I will ask her directly which one does she choose. I will tell her that she cannot be like this and she has to choose between me and the other guy. If she choose me, she must leave the other guy, and if she choose the other guy, then I will leave her and never contact her again even in the future if she contact me again.
@rainmark (4302)
15 Sep 08
If ever that happen i will let him go. I don't like to see him again coz he just remind me that he cheat on me and that hurts alot.I will let him go and live with someone and just hoping they will live happily and don't bothered me coz i don't want to kill someone unreasonably. Happy myloting.
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
i'll talk to her first and i'll just let her go if she's happy with the other so be it.
• Nigeria
15 Sep 08
Relationships are supposed to be mutual, therefore i would my girl chose between me and the other person. With the other guy in the picture, its no longer mutual and in as much as its going to hurt, i will simply walk away.
• Nigeria
15 Sep 08
Relationships are supposed to be mutual, therefore i would my girl chose between me and the other person. With the other guy in the picture, its no longer mutual and in as much as its going to hurt, i will simply walk away.
• India
15 Sep 08
You have to first find out what sort of relations you had with or what sort of relationship she or he felt with you before let her choose you or other. It is also possible that she may also continue the relation have with you and she may opt for some other sort of relationship with the other. To me suppose if she has some relationship with me from the friendship angle and some sort relationship with other of the motherly type of angle what make you curious to choose. Please comment if it happens what I say.