Can you share your husband or your wife with someone?
By 4my1nonly
@4my1nonly (352)
Philippines
September 15, 2008 3:35pm CST
All of us love to share any kinds of things we have, even if there's no left with you, you just give it to the one who really needs it...How 'bout sharing your wife or husband with others?...it sounds freak but it really happened in other people...you're not the only one with your husband/wife's heart, happiness, love...how bout you? if someone's ask to borrowed your husband or wife or i mean you didn't notice they are already there in a complicated situation, argh...how you've feel? what you will do?
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8 responses
@zabect (1)
• Australia
28 Sep 08
I have shared my wife for many years.It all started when we meet an old boyfriend of hers.He and I became friends and he mentioned that although they had been out a few times he had never slept with her.I asked would you if she agreed he said yes.So over the next few weeks I dropped a few hints and eventually one night they dated.The following weekend I suggested he ask her out again and this time hit on her,she went back to his place and spent the night.We haved talked about it and both agree no harm was done.Since then she has picked up a few guys and slept with them. One night she went to a party with her old boyfriend and was the life of the party entertaining most of his friends several times .It has made us closer and has never caused any problems,by the way I have never strayed it just doesn't appeal to me.
@4my1nonly (352)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
oh, you really does???how you've feel it??hmm...by the way thanks for the response...
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
25 Sep 08
I think when someone else becomes involved between a man and a woman, the situation becomes crowded. No I would like to share my wife with anybody else. And I think that she does not like to share me either.
@4my1nonly (352)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
yes, and as me don't want to share my husband with others or else i kill them both...hahahahaha....^__^
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
15 Sep 08
I don't think it is a thing that many people could handle, I always feel that if a person is ok whith sharing the one they are supposed to love then they don't really love them at all, I think love is an emotion that takes you over and it makes you feel insecure so to share is not many could handle. I wouldn't anyway.
@4my1nonly (352)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
i agree with you, its really hard, just to think how could other people handle it...well thanks for your response and happy mylotting, keep smiling =)...
@faln_angel1205 (1192)
• United States
25 Sep 08
Yes i can share my spouse. We have had an "open relatinoship" as we call it for a about 11 of the 13 yrs we have been together. We have been married for almost 10 of those years. I know that his heart is at home with me, and so i am okay with him being with others. If they were to hve an emotional relationship i can handle that too, as long as i am never put on the back burner or pushed aside. I am confident in myself and in our relationship and in his love for me, that i know he will never do that, he hasnt in all these years so why would he now.
This type of thing isnt for every couple. You have to have 100% trust and faith in each other and know that the other will never do anything to hurt you in order to be able to share so openingly.
@4my1nonly (352)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
yes, trust and faith is needed, i can share my husband with others as long as no other commitment involve, or they not step me out...i fully trust my husband but other person its hard for me to trust them...thanks for response....^__^
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
26 Sep 08
My answer would be a big "NO".Some things I can share and borrow but not my partner nor I will ever prefer to borrow somebody else's partner for a day or two.I cannot see my partner with the other ladies though I trust him 100%,and I get jealous so you can imagine letting my partner to another lady is next to impossible.
@workinggurl (399)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
No I don't think spouses are meant to be shared. Either they go or stay in the relationship.
@scorpio19 (1363)
•
24 Sep 08
There are some things in this life that are not made for sharing and one of them is my partner and if my partner felt he was made for sharing, then i'm afraid we would not be in a relationship.