what kind of man is/was your father
By Dday50627
@Dday50627 (359)
United States
September 15, 2008 5:52pm CST
My father is 76 years old and what a blessing to still have him and my mom still with us. Another 76 would work for me just fine. But what kind of man was he? He was the best of the best. He taught me many things as I grew up. Issues that would effect me when I was older. He is a loving man who taught me it was o.k. for a man to cry or show his gentle side.He taught me about God and how he would always be there for me, just as my father is. He was a hard worker and unafraid to work several jobs to feed his five gaping mouths. He taught me that a woman was always a lady and that is how you treated her. You showed her the respect she was suppose to get and always to compliment her looks and her smile. He taught me that if you treated a woman in the very best manner you could, that she would love you forever. He taught me that there was never ever a reason to strike a woman. That to do so made you the lowest form of life on this planet. He and my mother just celebrated 55 years together, so I trust he knows a bit about how to treat a lady right.
And, he taught me that he was not perfect, that made mistakes sometimes as a father and that I would too. But he knew how much I loved and admired him and said that my Love and children would love me in ths same way. He showed me it was ok to make mistakes and to be HUMAN.
He is a good man and I am a better man because of him. I love him very much. What kind of Father do/did you have.
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@pheonixstar1982 (2307)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I have to say i am jealous. My father is a complete and utter failure. My parents divorced when i was young and my father never wanted much to do with me or my brother other than to show us off to his new girlfriends. He thinks he did his job as a father just because he paid his child support. The only thing i have learned from him is how not to act. The man once told me that i could not be as smart as him because i am a woman. I could go on all day about how horrible he was and still is.
Now my mom is the total opposite and without her i would be lost. She is all that is good, loving, and understanding in the world.
@Dday50627 (359)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I am sorry that your father was not the man he should have been. Many times this is the case. Then one day it will hit him what he lost out on in not being all he could have been. I am thankful that you have your mother and that she is so very special to your heart. Cling to that and be happy in yourself. Hugsssss, Always, Darrel
@pheonixstar1982 (2307)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I don't hold out much for him realizing what he has missed out on and how wrong he is on how he treats me because in his eyes he has done no wrong.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
15 Sep 08
I was very lucky I think I had the bes dad in the world, he was so easy going, always joking and laughing and was always the first person to help people, he was so honest and taught me all the good things in life, my dad is gone now and I still miss him so much...to me my dad was king of the world...
@Dday50627 (359)
• United States
16 Sep 08
we were both blessed in that way. Thank you for your response. It was beautiful.