I want a second child and my husband does'nt ?

i think his is more on emotional concerns, we can still afford to have another child anytime. He is scared that I might get sick again, as the last time after 3 days of giving birth he brought me back to emergency because of some complications, and he has to drop our daughter to a friends house...we don't have families and relatives around so...it is quite difficult.

It seems to me here, now that I read your reply, that he is actually be concerned about you. He is afraid that the pregnancy might endanger your health and maybe even your life and I think he is afraid that he might lose you. He must love you very much. Have you thought of adopting a child if your health does not permit another pregnancy?

We communicate a lot, and he told me that he is scared that he might not be able to love the second child as much as he love the 1st one, and that I might get sick and a lot more !!! Our daughter has all the love, and she is a very smart and good daughter. I could not complain anything from her, I love her so much that I wanted to give her a sister or brother. I have a lot of sisters, so I know the feeling of having them around, and I want my daughter to experience that.

I know someone who had one child and wanted another but the partner did not want another child. Well somehow there was pregnancy. Accidents do happen they say. Apparently accidents can also be made to happen. Today they are no longer together but both children are the joy of both their lives. An unhappy ending to the marriage but a happy ending as far as children go. The reluctant partner even said one day that the other partner only did two good things, the two children.

i hope we don't end up that way, i love my husband soo much. Im still hoping though that he will change his mind in the near future. I need to use my convincing charm to make him agree !! Cheers -;)