Past or Present???
By pitstryke
@pitstryke (310)
Philippines
September 15, 2008 9:00pm CST
Years had past after our breakup and I still have feelings for her and I know she feels the same too. After months of break up with my ex I found this new girl of my life she's pretty and smart, sensitive and very nice.
My Ex talked to me and she want to continue our relationship,few months later after I and my present agreed that we have commitment to each other as bf and gf. My ex is in US right now and sometimes we still have communication through chat and mobile phone. My ex says she misses me and as I know I feel the same way too. My present loves me a lot,I think, because there was a time she even cried in front of me for some reason. I don't want to loose my present but I can't stop thinking about my Ex.
I and my ex had 17months relationship.
My present and I will have our 20th month anniversary this month.
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3 responses
@deedeehall (1144)
• United States
19 Nov 08
you really have to listen to you heart. how long were you away from your ex ?was it many years? if so this is really amazing maybe you truley do still love her.why did you guys break up? just be sure you are not feeling this way because that new relation ship feeling is there and then when it is gone you dont want her again.if only we could hit a fast forward button in our lifes and view what might be then we would know what to do.just listen to your heart it will not lie to you.
@priyankar (55)
• India
16 Sep 08
hey friend..a real dilemma as it seems..!!
wel...give time 2 dis feeling of yrs...n jus explore d reasons wy u r feeling for yr ex...r u really trying 2 find her in yr new one...if yes den u get d answer..u still love yr old one more den yr present n so...jus go 4 her!!
@hanasadako (92)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
You have to weigh things out and examine your emotions. You don't want to hurt someone in the process. You need to decide whom to love because you are dealing with the feelings of other person too. Your ex is in US, it means it will be a long distance relationship if you will choose her. but who cares if you really love each other and if you think you can survive with it.
With regard to your present girlfriend, you have to examine you heart, ask your yourself if you really love her. she might just become a "filler" in your heart--a stop gap, or spare tire. I think it is not a good idea to do that.
Hope this list can help you: WHO--
1. makes your heart beat fast?
2. makes you smile and happy by just looking at her face?
3. makes you feel empowered?
4. accepts the way you are?
5. comforts you?
6. knows how to console you?
7. accepts your shortcomings?
8. do not blame you too often?
9. accepts your family? is kind not only to you but also to your family?
10. supports your dream? gives advice?
