Who?
By nik00lai
@nik00lai (195)
Philippines
10 responses
@jennifer100 (30)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I know what you mean. I usually turn to my older sister to tell her things that I wouldnt tell anyone else. not even my husband. I have also been in a situation where I had no one to turn to and confide in. It doesnt feel to good. When I was in that situation I found one of those hotlines, you know where the person you are speaking to doesnt know who you are. I let out what I needed to let and I felt so much better. You do what you gotta do. I hope you find the answer you are looking for.
@ganda8831 (816)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Whenever i have a problem, i always call up my friends. I tell them everything so that i would feel better. Most of them are my friends who are girls. Girls i think are more sensible and more analytical so they're quite good in giving advice. I surely voice out my feelings whenever i have a problem because it's really hard if you keep it to yourself. Sometimes when the pain is so hard to bear i pray to god to give me strength.
@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
I usually tell my fiance or my best friend when I have problems or if I have things on my mind that just needs airing out. If it's something that I feel I have to fix, I keep it to myself until I'm able to solve it.
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
16 Sep 08
i confide into my hubby and best friend but then there are some times i just keep things to myself.. it just depends on issues and how every one is doing at the time.. not gonna worry with telling some one something if they are already stressed and losing their minds
@waters1748 (307)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I turn to my husband for EVERYTHING. No matter how large or how small I tell him everything. I can't think of a single thing that I haven't told him. Even if I don't want his opinion, I tell him and he just listens. Even if it is a "girl" thing, I tell him first. He works out of town so there are occasions where I can't tell him something right away and he might end up being 2nd or 3rd to know, but he knows before bedtime. I guess I'm lucky because somethings you don't even want to tell a family member or friend, just your confidante/best friend/husband.
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
hmmm it should be my cousin!william fortunato abella, he is my pillow, a shoulder to cry on, a friend to console me when im down and a friend who is their no matter what im doin, just sad that we are apart for sometime already as we grom up cause he is in seminary, miss you fortunato.
@sameroad (3179)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I don't really ever turn to anyone. I am someone who holds everything in and that is not always good. I feel like i don't really have anyone to turn too but that is not true...because i do. i could turn to my mom or someone else, like my cousin or whoever
but for somethings... i don't. and i don't because i feel like i can't.
I just don't feel comfortable talking about it with someone else or i can't because my mom doesn't know certain things about me.
i have issues when it comes to opening up and talking about or talking about my problems or whats bothering me.
i really wish i could open myself up but i can't. maybe one day i will learn how too.
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
16 Sep 08
Normally, I just turn to the internet because it's anonymous. Also, I'm surprised at how much wisdom a lot of people I don't know have about things. I find that even if I can not get help, I get a lot of info and it also really juts helps me let it all out. It make sme feel better and then I can move along.
@iceblizzard (749)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
I evaluate my problems first before I confide to someone. If it has something to do like talking to someone to make it half solve then I would go to my best friend and talk it over pizza with green peppers on it. Usually, I handle my problems on my own, I don't want others to be bothered because of me. Those problems that I confide to my best friend usually has something to do with the heart other than that I deal it in my own way.
@migsmartinez (1293)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Usually when I have a problem, I try to solve it myself. If I can't solve it or if it becomes to heavy for me, I'd turn to my girlfriend or to my family. They usually have a lot of advice to give me and are always willing to help me. Most of the time, it's easier to tackle the problem when you confide in someone. It's good to hear what someone close to you and cares for you thinks. The people close to you usually know you well and can probably help you overcome your problem. At least for me it's like that.