How did you fall in Love?
By shamikabsb
@shamikabsb (602)
Sri Lanka
September 16, 2008 5:42am CST
Dear Friends,
Some of you might be married. Some of you having a GF or BF. Some of you would have had more than one such relationships.
How did you fall in Love with your partner?
In my case, I have known her for 4 years and we were working together in the same organisation. We were very good friends but never thought of becoming lovers. Once I completed my degree I decided to leave that organisation and that was the time I understood that I am in love with her. She too liked me and we fell in love and got married 2 years back.
That's my story in short. What about you? Share with us if you don't mind.
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16 responses
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
I do have a boyfriend. We met through my sister, he was my sister's ex boyfriend friend. We became friends for a year. But before we end up together, we both had BF and GF. He supposed to court me before my ex-BF but things got together quickly. When My ex-BF and I broke up and he and his GF have a rocky relationship... 3 months of being single, and during that 3 months, we are getting closed. He called me everyday and talking for hours... texting each other, we go out and eat. Then he called me up and told me he was falling for me and I told him I felt the same way. We formally in a relationship the following day because we see each other and we are 5 years and counting in our relationship...
That's the summary of our love story...
@shamikabsb (602)
• Sri Lanka
17 Sep 08
Thanks for sharing your story and it is indeed a very long time. I wish you for your affair to last forever with all the success.
@walnutbrownie (745)
• India
17 Sep 08
i met my ex through a common fren.We were frens for over 2 years..we were kinda unseparable and after i left the city for another one we realised we were missed eac other so bad.I came back to the city and thats when we started dateing each other after 3 yrs of staying best frens.Unforunatelty, we have parted ways now due to reasons inexplicable.I guess i will always love him though always.
@shamikabsb (602)
• Sri Lanka
17 Sep 08
Sad to hear that you are parted. Your love will find you a better solution in future. Hope of the best.
@lily3753 (388)
• China
17 Sep 08
I want to share this one . I married my first only boyfriend .We are classmate in high school . I still remember at that time I teached him maths and he teached me physics . Sometime we shared difficulties both in study and life ,we got more and more close . But we hadn't fall in love at high school. When we went to different cities to continue our college life , we fall in love with each other . And we promised each other to find jobs in the same cities after graduated . Now we make it , though it is very difficult . Anyway we live together and get married .
@shamikabsb (602)
• Sri Lanka
17 Sep 08
Your love had been a professional one. You are a good example to show how to love without messing up other things in life.
@remorex007 (599)
• India
17 Sep 08
No i cannot fall in love upto now because i'm not look sexy so no girl like to love me because i look very ugly in this work so i don't like to love a girl.
@shamikabsb (602)
• Sri Lanka
17 Sep 08
Never think like that. I am also not a handsome person but someone liked me. Many girls liked me for my qualities. Not for the apearance. One girl loved me not for my apearance but for me. And she is my wife.
Same with you
@shanemre (357)
• Saudi Arabia
17 Sep 08
When I fell in love, a lot of things which I used to believe in changed. I met him from an old profile I posted in Lovehappens.com. In that time, I just tried, and then I left that site, and then suddenly after a year, I received an email, we started emailing each other, chat every night, started calling, frequent sms. And when he got the chance, he came here to see me. We met, saw each other, and everything was perfect. In that time I knew and I felt that he is the one.
There was this ocean in between us when we started and he crossed it. This is how I realized and felt that he is real. Also, even at the time we haven't seen each other yet, everything feel so right. We think alike, we share the same thoughts, and we are both willing to compromise about our differences.
I fell in love with his honesty and his truthfulness. I fell in love with his eyes, his smile and his sincere care for me and my family. I fell in love with him, and his kind heart. I knew that I am in love, when I am seeing myself growing old beside him. I know that I fell in love with him when he told me he love me from his heart and then I felt tears of sincerity from his eyes touched my cheeks. I knew that I am in love with him when I felt scared of ever losing him...
and then, this year we got married... everything feel so right. Now, I am truly happy and I know that we both love each other dearly. In this time, everyday... He is making me realize different definitions about love... true love that in unconditional.
@shamikabsb (602)
• Sri Lanka
17 Sep 08
So it started from Cyber Love. Although it was something dangerous I find that you have found your True Love beyond the ocean. I am happy for you and I wish you all the best.
@lixiaos77 (1030)
• Shijiazhuang, China
17 Sep 08
Yes, I love the female coworker as you. I knew I love her since we had worked together for about 2 years. She is elegant and beautiful, merely a glance of her can made me happy all the day, and I fall into uncontrolable love. Although I didn't know how to make a girl happy, my heart told me how to do every thing I should.
@shamikabsb (602)
• Sri Lanka
17 Sep 08
That's what you call love my friend. You don't need to be an expert to become an expert in loving.
@emarie (5442)
• United States
16 Sep 08
i'm married. it was a slow progression in my case because i was in denial for quite a period. the relationship between me and my now husband started off rocky and really confusing since i probably fell for him before even meeting him. i talked to him on the 13th of feburary because i was having 'guy issues' with my ex. i initial called to talk to our mutual friend who was to involved in video games to listen so he passed the phone to him. we talked well past my problem into general things and about how wer are personally and discovered we think alike, before we knew it it was the 14th and we wished each other valentines day. i few days latter we met and i saw him and instantly wanted to hug him because of his kindness. at that time i didn't think much of a romantic relationship would happen because his friend was courting me. needless to say, it didn't work out between me and his friend and that began a whole back and fourth thing between us. since i was planning to move away in a few months i didn't want to get attached and he didn't seem to want to let me go. in the end, i gave in when he 'wooed' me with our first kiss and it went on from there. before i graduated high school after a few months of us official dating, he asked me to marry him and said he would follow me to where i was move. he pretty much dropped everything and gave up what he had there to start a new with me in another state. around that time we found out i was pregnant with our first son, all the more reason he said to be married. we married a month before our son was born on his selected date or 2.2.2002
@shamikabsb (602)
• Sri Lanka
17 Sep 08
Well, it's like a romantic movie. I am sure you live happily for last 6 years. All the best!
@itsmepinky (1300)
• India
16 Sep 08
Hello shamikabsb,I have a similar story like yours. we were working in the same organisation and were just hello/hi friends. Soon i left the organisation and forgot about him. But he somehow got my no from one of our common friends and that is how wew actually started interacting and fell in love two years later.~Pinks~
@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
16 Sep 08
Well I have had some interesting ones where guys check me out just because of the way I walk or the way I carry myself but nothign substantial ever came out of these. I am convinced that I must remain single.
I am currently talking to a guy. he is okay and all that. ALthough I have decided to give him a chance at my age I am still unsure if I want to. I am convinced that it is because I have been alone all these years so the interest or emphasis on that area of my life has lost its lustre. All I want to do is concentrate on my studies, my young people in the church and my child.
So to answer your question I am like Tarzan before he found Jane!
@shamikabsb (602)
• Sri Lanka
17 Sep 08
So dear Tarzan, a time will come when you fine Jane, that you feel, you are fallen. Till then, study hard. Thanks for responding!
@callcenterchick (94)
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16 Sep 08
i met my boyfriend at our office he became one of my friends and he is still in love with someone else but the girl that he is love with is in love with another man.. so i became like his friend and made him comfort like always be there for him no matter what and that no matter happens is that i will support him with his decisions. But never thought that i will fall in love with him.... i realized it when he is starting to hang out with that girl... but in the months time... he just proposed to me and told me that he is love with me and that no matter what i accepted him on what he is...and now we are married 2 years already
@shamikabsb (602)
• Sri Lanka
17 Sep 08
Congratulations! In fact I too have similar history. Before my wife & I fall in Love we were advising and helping each other for 2 of our crushes. Neither of us succeed and finally we fall in love with each other :D
@jzjqdkd (273)
• China
17 Sep 08
it is really a surprise ,I have almost the same with you,the difference is that i am in a university with her,and at the beginning,i love her secretly,until the last year at school,our relationship was confirmed,but we still haven't got married yet,i am not sure whether she will or not ,but i really love so much.i hope one day we can .
@richamani (58)
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16 Sep 08
well we were classmates nd gud frnds... we use to understand each other a lot nd so we almost use to spend our time togetehr wenever we were in group , nd became very gud frnds nd our frnds use to take it other way ... but der was ntn as such ... but as time passed we realised how much does des relation mean to both of us des is how our relation grew
@richamani (58)
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16 Sep 08
we were very gud friends........we both had a linking towards each other but never tried to disclose..........
one day he told me that he is in love wid a girl ..........and the qualities he told about her reflected in me.........he told me that he is in dilemma to know whether she too loves him or not i told him that the girl also loves him........he asked me so u have come to know who's the girl i said yes I know..its me.......and thereon we started a relationship which converted to our marriage
@setsujin11 (80)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
When im getting weird.. smiling all the time and became caring...
@rakittera (802)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
I have been married for 4 years now. I met my husband in college. We were members of the same organization and we were moving around the same circle of friends. I have known him since sophomore years. He was too quiet and private while I was always the life of the party and I was always surrounded with friends. Nobody ever thought that he and I would hit it off. A few months before graduation, I had a problem with my thesis. For some reason, I couldn't run to my friends for help. Luckily, he (now my husband) was there to listen to me and help me out with my problem. I was able to finish my thesis in time to be able to graduate. We became close after that and fell in love later on. Everybody was so shocked because they couldn't believe we were together. We were such an odd couple back then. But, who would have thought? We hit it off well, been together for 5 years before we finally decided to get married. Now, we are on our fifth year and we have one lovely daughter.
@shamikabsb (602)
• Sri Lanka
17 Sep 08
I am very happy to hear your story. Some says that similar people should get together for an affair to succeed. But you have proved that is wrong. In fact you are a good example for many.
All the best for the rest of your life.