love
By sweetcouple
@sweetcouple (221)
India
5 responses
@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
That's a very hard situation to face. Anyway, be very strong as this will really entail a very challenging thing. You have to compete with her. Put her in her place. Show her in your own ways that you are the legal wife and that you are entitled to do things which she can't.
@sweetcouple (221)
• India
17 Sep 08
she understands it very well. but says she love s him too much and she wants to get f_ _ _ _ _ by him. wants to sleep always with him. she is gone crazy i think.
but i really how i compete with her. my husb. had told her that her b_ _ _ s are better than mine. and all such stuff. i do not know how true that is. now any talk with her is ... i do not know what to do? i am just perplexed.
@blackmantra_x (2732)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Good day.. If you still love your husband then fight. know your rights as a legal wife and don't give in. Give them a hard time.
@sweetcouple (221)
• India
17 Sep 08
dear blackmantra,
i love my husband too much. i worship him. but the prob is he does not. if you have read my other posts here in mylot you would understand my mind, heart, situation everything.
and i am thinking of the ways to give her a hard time but not to my husb. again even thought is stopping me from doing anything cos my husband loves her and wants her.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
I think that woman is crazy and she doesn't know what she is saying. You had enough pain with whats happening, you deserve your privacy, it's the nerve.I think you better talk to your husband,and tell him that their is someone who called you up,and it's not your problem it's his problem with her so let him fix it. That is already foul. Well talk to a lawyer who could give you the best advice. That could help a lot and could give you advice. You can even sue her and your husband if you want it to,just let her know that. She doesn't have the right mind his not married to your husband yet. Their is a process. Have a nice day! God be with you!
@sweetcouple (221)
• India
17 Sep 08
n30wing, thanks for your post. i tried talking to my husband. he says everything ended. but they are still seeing eachotehr and talking t o each other in my absenxce. you see we cannot hang around 24 hrs. and now my husband is gone back to home on official work pretext, i am sure they both are toghther at home. things are happening and i am not able to/ not stopping it.
seeking a lawyers advice is against all of us cos it only destroys all of our families including kids, and we will be left with a social taboo. and all our (mine and my husbands) financial transactions will be disturbed.
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
16 Sep 08
What the !!!!
If some lady told me that she would have a beat down coming! Heck no, he is your husband you need to lose him for having an affair or he needs to lose her to keep u.
Unless i am misunderstanding this discussion.
If some lady told me that she would have a beat down coming! Heck no, he is your husband you need to lose him for having an affair or he needs to lose her to keep u. Unless i am misunderstanding this discussion.@sweetcouple (221)
• India
17 Sep 08
savmot,
the problem with me is i love my husband tooooooooooooooo much. he is not my love he is my worship. he is my god.
that's not going off from my heart and making me paralytic from taking any untoward step.
well, she is married. had a love marriage and has two sons. lives with her inlaws, brothers, and parents and other relatives too in a residential complex.
