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It happens... especially when my friends approach me with their love problems or having problem deciding... I gave them the advantages and disadvantages of what ever they decide into... And of course they will be the one to decide not me. Because most of my friends, they wanted me to decide for them... But I cant do that.. I don't have their life to get involve right?! I have my own... Some of my friends ask for my advices but they want to hear the words they only wanted to hear. And my wordings are useless... If they can't accept the reality, they can't move on and can't start all over again...

most of my friends come to me for advice, but i never really give them what they want to hear i always ask them to evaluate the problem and see what solution is best to take. there are always pros and cons to everything and most of the time people tend to ask for advice but the truth is they have already decided what to do. all they want is assurance and a shoulder to cry on.