My heart and mind doesn't cooperate....

hi dear vidyavini , you are kind hearted , you are attached , you love people. but some of them may not deserve it! friends they come and get some thing from us when they need us . they are not friends they are selfish people. such people only will behave like that!! when you say friends , they should stay with you in thick and thin, whEn you need them!! if you are true to her no problem leave your daily messages , your advice on her email, etc. , i mean you do your part . but you will feel hurt if she does not reciprocate! here you have to be a little self less. you may keep doing your duty towArds a friend , she may come back to you after she realises it sooner or later. and i am sure she will one day!! all the best

Well for one thing, she is probably in a very bad situation too herself. She probably needs some space and to be by herself for now. Life isn't a bed of roses. It never has been. In time she may get over it. You owe her that much. For her to find within herself to find her own meaning. Most people do get over sad times and move on. When that happens she may be back to say hi to you. Nevertheless, all you can do for now is give her your moral support even if she doesn't reply back it doesn't mean you have lost her forever. Give her the support she needs without asking for something back. The euphoric feeling of extending a helping hand is beyond comparison. A simple hi on email or chat would be enough. At least she knows there is always someone out there that even cares for her. cheers!!!

I too have a same kind of friend, we were as good friends but slowly the relationship started to have a gap and he started making lot of small issues in my life. I could able to come out of it and still we dont have good realtionship but we never thought of break it also. We rarely speak to each other but manytimes i get details about him from my friends..so i could tell you better keep a gap and get details or updates about him that he is living fine somewhere, is a optimum solution for these cases

Well do what your heart desire and if in time your heart get tire of the hurting it is about time to move on and use your head

hi vidhya.. i can say that heart will be more emotional always and it will make us more depressed for even small problems and excite us a lot for even a very small joy.. i can say that if you wanna lead a happy life, then you be the mind ruler so that you can be more practical.. happy mylotting

Ohh well see all i can say is. if You really appriciate your friendship and its like that very close friendship , then go meet her. but if its not that and all then leave it. Dont run behind peopl. you tried contacting her once and she didnt reply , i think if you do more then you will only get more problems and all. Well anywyas all the best. Happy mylotting :)

i think you are too sensitive.just let her go.maybe she is not interested or maybe she has some other reason why she is avoiding you.

Sad to hear that from you Vidhya.If she dosent want you why are you going to care for her.What are you going to get from her if she is talking with you?Try to get that from the other good friends your having.Don't wait for her anymore and its worthless to do that.Be happy with what you have and dont be worrying for someone who dont need you.If you dont have any good friends,Im always here.Good luck to you.