What kind of friend are you?

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I'm at a situation right now. I treasure my friend that we're really close. But since I've stopped this semester, I couldn't look after her. Even though our other best friend is there with her, their gap is starting to widen up more. I'm worried about it. This friend I'm worried about doesn't want to listen to what we say. She got back with her ex boyfriend and we can feel and see that in the end there's a big possibility that he's gonna hurt her again. We try to tell her to take control because as we can see she's like being obsessed with the guy that she's going to his school to fetch which is totally out of her way home after school. He's like controlling her and we're afraid that she'd still get hurt specially that she's putting too much effort to care for their relationship. We're trying to warn her to get in control but it seems she doesn't trust us. She thinks we just want to ruin their relationship and break them up. My two friends ended up with a quarrel but I ended up my conversation with her with "I'll let you handle all this situations that's happening and that will happen, just remember if you need someone, I'm just here." I don't know what's better. Is it better to be a friend who tells you what to do and bumps your head for you to wake up in reality like what my other friend did? Or is it better to tell her but then let her still handle the situations herself until she's hurt much and realize that we're right all along like what I did?