I don't want to wear bra
By mitiy6065
@mitiy6065 (74)
China
September 17, 2008 6:21am CST
I really don't like wear bra,that' make me uncomfortable.sometimes I don't wear,but my friends said it's not decent when you go out.Coz people can see your nipples.why it's so big deal?I think it's more free,maybe fashion.So I can use tape nippless,but they can't replace bra usually.People said don't use tape nippless too often.so what you think?what about you?what can I do?thank you and enjoy myloting.
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7 responses
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
17 Sep 08
Well here the only thing I can say is your should always wear bra.
It really enhances our figure and posture.
Maybe you are not wearing the right size that's why you are not feeling very comfortable in them.
Try t find the right size for your self.
And make it a habit.
When I was starting to wear a bra it was very uncomfortable for me too.
But after some months or weeks your body makes adjustments with it.
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
18 Sep 08
do one thing ... do not wear a bra when you are at home..
I do the same.
But crap!! I have got guests over my place for at least a month.
NO I'll have to wear my bra all the time...
Thank goodness I sleep alone!!
@mitiy6065 (74)
• China
17 Sep 08
I will try to find the better one.And I think I will make it a habit.It's not a big problem.I had some time to wear bra.I just feel a little tired.Thanks for your posting,happy myloting.
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@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
19 Sep 08
wear bra good to your health. suggested wear it.
you may wear appropriate bra of the size. so you can enjoy and good health.
happy and enjoy it !
@tinker_bel (297)
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
hi mitiy!
hmmmmmm...wearing bra is really uncomfortable for some of us. As for me i dont wear brasiere when i am at home because you are right, it is more free and it is more comfortable. But as for not wearing bra outside our house is a big no-no for me especially in our society here in the Philippines. It is such a big taboo, you would be the center of gossipmongers if you have been caught not wearing a bra.
This is a big deal for people because in our society today, the media has set a standard for us..which is to wear bra, so when someone deviate from normal, they would think that something is wrong with you.
So i advice you sis that if you are happy and comfortable with what you are doing, as long as you are not hurting anyone...then go ahead. life is to short to dwell on what other people might think and say about you. so live life to the fullest.
Happy mylotting and see you around!
@mitiy6065 (74)
• China
17 Sep 08
Yes,you are right and I agree with you.Our society is that.We can't change other people's thought.They can chose what to do,but I can chose what I think about that.I can don't wear in the home,that's great,so look for the positive aspects,I don't have to wear all time.And I will do what make me feel good.Thank you.
@rainmark (4302)
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18 Sep 08
Well not all women are the same. For you , you don't like wearing it coz you feel uncomfortable, but then you can wear undershirt or baby bra instead of brassiere. It helps to hide your boobies and nipples coz you wouldn't know you will get harrassed outside or in the street coz they see your boobies.Just wear undershirt that's what i can advice to you.
@mitiy6065 (74)
• China
19 Sep 08
I like undershirt.So many choices for me.Thanks for your advice and happy myloting.
@Bobbysox (224)
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17 Sep 08
Im sure it is up to you whether you want to wear a bra or you dont.If you have large nipples and they tend to show from under your tops then why worry?if you are getting concerned over this then there are many different options you could take,you could wear a sports bra,a soft one that doesnt seem like a bra at all,or you could visit your local department store and see what they have to offer in the undewear section.I know I like a cami top under my tee shirts,they are soft and they keep you ewarm as well.But im sure a good shop would be able to point you in the right direction.not all of us like to wear brassieres as they do dig into your skin sometimes,but if you are like me and have a heavier bust then the option not to wear one is there,you have to wear one for support.So go and take a look in the department stores and see what advice they could give you.
@mitiy6065 (74)
• China
17 Sep 08
I think about the bra too.And go to some shops,they think mine are too small.Give me adjust-bra.It too tight for me.I feel troublesome to do this things.I will go to find.Thank you.
@abhi_bangal (5532)
• Ahmednagar, India
17 Sep 08
I think its important to wear one for ladies. It not only keeps them in shape but also avoids many diseases like cancer and all that. Its a must I will say. If you use a good one, it shouldn't bother you.