Do you think two lovers who they are in different cities can marry at last?
By neulichuang
@neulichuang (85)
China
September 17, 2008 10:59pm CST
When I was in the University,I found that a lot of students had their partners.When I graduated from university,a lot of lovers were forced to part with their partners,because they would be in the different cities.Of course,some lovers still keep the relationship fater graduation,but at last they nevertheless parted.If the lovers in the university will part at last,why do we get a partner in our university times?What do you think about this?
6 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
Sometimes we don't know what will happened next. Some just want to feel love and having someone at that time cause their alone. In love you can't ask for a return. Some just want to make most of it. Those who goes further, cause they want to,and they think it will still workout for them. Their is always a reason. Some are meant to be and some relationship wasn't meant to be but they tried. Have a nice day!
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@jjfunnyguy (19)
• United States
18 Sep 08
That sounds really weird if you and ure partner lives in two different cities and suddenly decide to marry...what if one of you changed? I think that having a partner in university is nice since it makes you more socialable but if you guys don't marry in college, then don't marry at all..
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
My husband's cousin had a long relationship with this girl then the girl work as a flight stewardess for Saudia first. Hubby's cousin was left here in the Philippines and would see each other once every two months I think. Eventually they married and kept the arrangement. Recently, the girl quit to be with her husband who is now based in Oman.
Sometimes, these kinds of relationship works, sometimes they don't. It really depends on the person's destiny, I think. I guess it is possible. Look at husband's cousin.
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
Hello friend, Some relationship does not really survive a long distance affair. In some they have their relationship grows stronger, as for my case when my hubby was out of the University, it was really hard for me to cope up and to live a normal life without him on my side (he is still my bf then) so I just took off and live with him, I stopped my studies and glad I did follow him.
@fatmansmommy (751)
• United States
18 Sep 08
i live in ny and went to college in florida. at the end of my freshman year i met a guy from chicago. to make a long story short, we dated for 6 years, fully intending to get married and all that. true, we lived in different cities, but until he graduated college we were only apart for the summers, and even then we would visit eachother about twice a summer. but it finally just got to be too much. i wanted him to move here and he thought that i should move there with him. so we ended up calling it quits. i think it could have worked had i been more financially prepared to move out of my parents' house at the time, but i wasn't. he kept telling me that he would help me out, but i didn't want to move to a new place and be reliant on him for everything- i didn't even have a car at that time. so yes, i think it just depends on the people and the situation. for me, i am glad it did not work out, because obviously then i would not be married now to my wonderful hubby! :)
@yanny2008 (56)
• China
18 Sep 08
I am a college student,there are so many lovers parted with each other when they
graduated from University!
I want to tell you that: we should not stop eating for fear of chocking.